What To Do With A Man Who Is Involved With Some One Else?
I've been involved with a man for 6 months although we are both in relationships. Mine has been going on for 2 and his for 4 years. He says that the passion is gone and it is the same for me and my boyfriend. He even calls me his soul mate. We tried to end it but we couldn't. It seems like he won't ever leave her because of their business together and he keeps talking about their plans and then says bad things about her. What should I do? I'm prepared to leave my boyfriend.
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I would leave them both! The odds that you and him will have success is slim to none statically. The factor of the affair, the secret the element that you are being bad is usually the excitement factor that gets one involved in a situation such as yours. Odds are that even if he did leave his other and you left yours and you became the one, that the new you or number two would not be far off! If you want someone for you become what you want and then look for the same. Getting what you have now is most likely you becoming what your and his other half are now, the victim of a cheat!
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You need to end it all. Your not happy with your boyfriend, obviously, and you should not continue to hurt him. You can't not put your life on hold waiting for the other guy either. Neither one of you are being fair to each other or to the ones who actually do care for you.
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The best thing you can do, is absolutely nothing. Trying to break a relationship up (even if he's unhappy, as it isn't your business -- it's his) is a very bad thing to do. Imagine being his girlfriend/wife. Imagine being in love with him, and finding out that not only he doesn't feel the same way, but he's been cheating with a woman who is willing to try and break the 2 of you up. That wouldn't feel very good, right?
Talk to him, tell him how you feel!
Talk to him, tell him how you feel!
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