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I'm Falling For This Man And Were Having A Great Time Together And Are Very Close. My Parents Know Him And I Want To Tell Them Were Seeing Each Other But He's 11 Years Older Than Me And I Don't Know How They'll React As I'm 16 Help?

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    OH snap, what else are you doing at age 16 other than having a affair, that is the fear of your parents if you are doing anything positive with hie encouraging you than they may not mind like going to school and keeping your grades up a parents worse night mare is to know that a man comes before their childs own well being because your parents will not always be here, what type life are you planning for yourself do you plan to finish school and go on to a higher education, ie college to eke out a life and career for yourself or are you putting your life on hold for this man, is he encouraging you to pursue a career etc.......the best to you
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    Bgirl525 

    answered 6 months ago

    A great time is not all there is to life......and if you feel that it is you have a lot to learn and a long way to go......
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    Bgirl525

    commented 6 months ago

    I have left school and am in full time employment (i actually receive higher education from this and will have a degree in four years hopefully.) I have been in a relationship for 11 months which ended 3 months ago and that was with an older man ( 22 ) my parents were fine. They have always let me be my own person whilst being responsible im just worried my mum especially will freak out a bit.
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    X-jd

    commented 6 months ago

    Right now he is your sugar DADDY because he is older and more experienced, but he is also older and older gets no youger they keep getting older, will you be able to handle it when he becomes YOUR SHITTY DADDY by that I mean aged, sickly,unable to hold or control his bowels & urine using a walker and you are still young and viable, will you still be in love with him, ask yourself these things....
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    Bgirl525

    Bgirl525

    commented 6 months ago

      Did you say that he was 27 years old girl move on and find someone else
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      Victoriayo 

      answered 6 months ago

        Im 16 and my boyfriend is 9 years older than me, i think when you have found the person you love, age doesnt matter :] talk it out with your parents tell them you would want to have that relationship, tell them that you understand they might think its wrong..but you feel its right, they'll hopefully understand..have him talk with your parents..thats what my boyfriend did and everything is going great..i wish you lots of luck.
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        Kelly92 

        answered 6 months ago

        HONEY,  i do not know you and i dont think i want to but u r WAYYYYY tooo young to be having a 27 year old boy friend when u r 16!   Save your parents, yourself, and him the heart ache and emotional damage plus the worry and break it off! FIND SOMEONE YOUR OWN AGE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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        Liveurlife 

        answered 6 months ago

        If I were you I would run from this guy ! Did you ever hear of Statutory Rape this man should be in Jail because your Jail Bait and your parents maybe your dad should kick his ass and tell him to find a woman not a young girl , please you will only get hurt stay away from this creep.
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        Mikalee68 

        answered 6 months ago

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