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Why Do Bad Things Keep Happening?

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    It is all a part of life. I have bad thing happen all the time and as you age, it seams to get worse. You must keep a positive attitude and remember, this too shall pass. And try to remember the good things
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    Wilbert 

    answered 5 months ago

      When bad things happen, we're naturally upset, and at those times it's hard to think positive about anything. But most of the time, things that seem bad to us, really end up making opportunities for good things to happen to us later. Try to keep positive and trust that something good will happen as a result of this. If you keep this thought in your mind, it may help you deal with it a little better, and hurt a little less. Life is full of opportunities, and lessons for us all to learn and grow from.
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      Bettereyes 

      answered 5 months ago

      I'm still getting use to this website, first time post hehe.

      But no, bad things keep happening to me, I dont know why, I mean, I know I'm not perfect but my life, from age 5 to now (age 24) has been filled with more hurt and pain than most people I know can bear. And I'm just saying that either. But my recent ordeal is just this guy I was dating that has accused me of cheating on him today, and apparently broke up with me (via text message). Cause I saw a movie with a male friend of mine.
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      Sohurt

      Sohurt

      commented 5 months ago

      Yeah, I just signed up on this site too so I'm just getting used to it as well. I'm sorry you've had so much sorrow and bad luck. And I'm sorry about your boyfriend. Maybe you'll meet someone more understanding as a result of this. I don't know why he would get so upset if he knew you and this guy were just friends. Unless he's just overly jealous. And maybe if he is, then this could just have saved you from a lot of tension and heartache over a long period of time.
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      Bettereyes

      Bettereyes

      commented 5 months ago

      Everyone has a right to be happy, and I sure hope things turn around for you. Be careful of who you let into your heart, and try to surround yourself with people who are true friends and supportive of you. You never know when things will turn around for the better and start looking up. I hope those times are very near for you.
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      Bettereyes

      Bettereyes

      commented 5 months ago

        Bad things happen to the best of us... And some times bad things happen to good people... And sometimes bad things happen to balance the good...but one thing is for sure everything comes to past. And what doesn't kill us will only make us stronger...
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        Summerwind 

        answered 5 months ago

        =( That's true, but I certainly is killing me inside. I feel like a strong stone in a river, slowly being worn away to nothing. I'm not a downer person, actually very opptomistic really, but still, I find myself wondering if i am doing something wrong, or why I cant BE happy, ever! Been milested for years, stressed to the point of sickness, boy troubles that never end, divorced, raped, best friend died, the list goes on and on. I dont beieve I DESERVE anything more than anyone, but still...
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        Sohurt

        Sohurt

        commented 5 months ago

        I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers, and you are deserveing of good things in life... I hope for happyness and joy to fill that void and pain...best wishes truly
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        Summerwind

        Summerwind

        commented 5 months ago

           
           

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