What Do You Do When You Have A Long Distance Love Relationship?
I have this problem, I met this guy, he is so wonderful, and I fell in love with him..he feels the same about me. 1 problem though: I am in California and he is in Australia. Wow that is 14,000 miles away from me. We talk everyday and we laugh all the time together...We are so very happy.But I miss him and want to be with him. Should I ask him to come live me with me here in the US?
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Hi!
You know love is a powerful feeling and if you both feel so strong and want to be together and you know that this is 'the one', then why don't you ask him to move to the States - alternatively, you could offer to go and live in Aus!! Or to compromise, both of you live in Europe!!
There is no right or wrong answer to this, you both have to do what you feel is right with you both............however, i am sensing that this was a holiday romance and you are the one doing the most missing? Mind you, the best romances start with a holiday!!
Amil made the point about his financial status - if you both want something badly enough, you will both achieve it - even if it takes a little while and not over night, but it will happen. But the only thing i will warn you about is the fact that if you aren't prepared to live out there, and he doesn't want to go to you, then that answers your question - you have no future, because there is no compromise. This in turn is going to leave you feeling very deflated and let down and hurt.
You cannot have this relationship over the phone and by mail for the rest of your life, one of you will be snatched up by a better offer!
I wish you well with your life - be happy!
You know love is a powerful feeling and if you both feel so strong and want to be together and you know that this is 'the one', then why don't you ask him to move to the States - alternatively, you could offer to go and live in Aus!! Or to compromise, both of you live in Europe!!
There is no right or wrong answer to this, you both have to do what you feel is right with you both............however, i am sensing that this was a holiday romance and you are the one doing the most missing? Mind you, the best romances start with a holiday!!
Amil made the point about his financial status - if you both want something badly enough, you will both achieve it - even if it takes a little while and not over night, but it will happen. But the only thing i will warn you about is the fact that if you aren't prepared to live out there, and he doesn't want to go to you, then that answers your question - you have no future, because there is no compromise. This in turn is going to leave you feeling very deflated and let down and hurt.
You cannot have this relationship over the phone and by mail for the rest of your life, one of you will be snatched up by a better offer!
I wish you well with your life - be happy!
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I agree totally! You hear this story all the time, but with a sad ending. There is a difference between falling in love and being in love. The type of love that lasts, takes a long time to grow. It's not the same as the butterfly feelings we create in our head. Infatuation feels good but does not last... and no one can tell you that either, you have to learn it the hard way!
Ty I totally agree to...The thing is that he loves and misses me too....We feel so much Love for each other. It's unreal...It is so great that to feel love from someone
Then I think that patience is a virtue and when the time is right, you guys will be together. :-)
If he is reach it is possible that will finish successfully but he is poor it is problem you have to forget him.
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