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What Should I Do To Comfort My Boyfriend?

I think I'm pregnant and he's always been there for me and told me that he will be here with me 100% of the way. I trust him and tomorrow I'm getting a blood test for pregnancy and he didn't decide it was a good idea to freak out until just now. He's scared because he says we are too young. We want to keep the baby. How do I make him calm down? Also... I'm a little worried myself. (We are 16). EDIT: I'm keeping it.

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    I was married at 15 and gave birth to my son at 18.  My son is now 22 and a wonderful person.  Good for you in wanting 2 keep your baby.  Get your ged's, get jobs, and get ready 4 a wonderful experience...for god has indeed blessed you both with a wonderful gift!
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    Nascarnut  

    answered 2 years ago

    I know this was posted a while ago, but you just keep getting more awesome! Great advice, I was reading Mayfly's q&A since I answered one of her questions the other day. She's a good girl, I think she'll be fine. It's hard being a young Momma but I wouldn't change any of it.
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    Mamacass

    Mamacass

    commented 2 years ago

      I don't think that there are any words that can help. I think that you should put yourself in the baby's place. A baby deserves to be wanted by both parents and you need to be old enough to provide for the baby. I would advise that both of you discuss looking into adoption because there are many people who want a baby but are not able to conceive. And it is what is best for the baby that is most important.
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      Marby  

      answered 2 years ago

      SCROLL DOWN A BIT!
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      Nascarnut

      Nascarnut

      commented 2 years ago

        I agree with Marbee on this. At 16 having a child and taking on the roles of parents is a daunting task. It is a daunting task at 32, which is when I had my Baby without a Father. He cried himself to sleep because he had no father. I would not trade a minute of the time we had, but it could have been easier on him. Put personal feelings on back burner, and do what is best for child.
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        Pencil  

        answered 2 years ago

        You are young but also mature enough to discuss this you need to be prepared if you choose to keep this baby that you may bring this baby up alone even if your boyfriend has promised to be there you will be the mother your decision will be final take a little time to consider what to do here
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        Sunnyd  

        answered 2 years ago

        Dear, whatever your feelings are right now, you have to think logically. I know love is illogical and that you really wanna keep the baby, because you love each other.  And believe me age is not a big problem, but what matters is maturity which comes with age and which you lack at the moment, no matter what you say. It will be beautiful to have a baby with the person you love, but everything has got its own time. And this is just not the right time. So think over it a lot. Think of all pros and cons before deciding. And decide logically, and for a minute think with the help of your mind and not heart. Do u really think you can give up your life and career at such a tender age and tend to the baby??? Do u think you are capable enough??? If yes, if you are totally confident about yourself and your boyfriend, keep the baby. And if he really loves you, he will understand. First be comfortable and relaxed yourself, then only you can provide him some comfort...
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        Guest

        Guest  

        answered 3 months ago

             
             

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