How Do I Explain To My Boyfriend That He Might Not Actully Love Me?

Well that is tricky. Men express or don't express love the same as women, but often love way more than we expect or believe. It sounds like you may have a communication problem. Why don't you try asking him what he thinks love is, and then ask him if he loves you? Tell him that you don't feel loved and that is something you need from the significant other in your life. Tell him that you have thought about leaving, would that upset him, if so why? That would be one way of finding out if you are on the same track lovewise. Tell him that you need the comfort of feeling loved, and suggest some ways he might express it to you. I hope this is helpful. If so, could you click on the star next to the words RATE THIS ANSWER, that would help me a lot, thanks and good luck with your boyfriend....*p

Also ask him where he see's your relationship going.