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What To Do When Your Parents Are Fighting?

My parents have been fighting for a long time, there came to a point that he has left us. My father has hurt this family so much that it makes me hate him. I just don't want my mom to hurt any more. I just want to tell to get divorced so that this can all end, but I'm not sure. What can i do?

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    The best thing to do is to let her cool off for a bit and then later on explain what you feel about their relationship and what she should do. I know this is the best course of action because when i was in third grade the same thing happened to me. Hopefully your story ends like mine and in a few years you'll be on pretty good terms with your dad again. Either way i wish you good luck
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    Altair9111 

    answered 2 years ago

      I do recommend that you let your mother take a little time to cool off, and then you should talk to her about this, but make sure that your mother knows that this is important to you, and you would appreciate it if she would really listen to you. I know that the break up of a family can be very, very hard to deal with, but in the long run, do you want to see your mother and you smile and love one another comfortably without the anger of your father getting in the way. Hope this helps, good luck to you, and you will be in my prayers.
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      Tiggersmom 

      answered 2 years ago

        May be right them each a note telling them how it bothers you and at least to have the courtesy to not argue in front of you. It is a scary situation for a kid to witness two people that they love so much involved in an argument. They should go into a room and not involve you into the argument so you wont hear all the hurtful things people say during arguments. You may think about leaving the house for awhile go to a friends house a neighbors to its over. Good luck but definitely let them know how you feel. As a parent they should and need to respect that
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        Ezmunae 

        answered 2 years ago

        My advise is to talk to your parents right now telling them how you feel that they been fighting for a long time and it time to end all the fighting.
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        Guest 

        answered 7 months ago

        My mom fights the most but when they fight i cry i dont know what to do my mom fights becuse we have a toy shop  and in our town has about 500 people and our town is verry small
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        Guest 

        answered 4 months ago

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