How Should You Spank Your Daughter?

Tell her why she is going to be spanked, explain her offense. Send her to her room and when you are calm, not angry go into her room. Sit on the edge of the bed and lower her panties after she is across your lap for modesty. Lay her across your lap and spank her bare bottom with your hand. Some people feel that only a mother should spank a daughter but when I was growing up my father spanked me also on my bare bottom. I was not embarrassed by him spanking me and seeing my bare bottom. Actually my father did a more fair job of spanking and never did it in anger. You should spank her with only her bottom showing and pull up her panties prior to her standing up. She should be spanked long enough for it to be memorable(pink-red bottom) but do not over do it. Her bottom should never be sore for more than an hour, it should be sufficiently warmed for her to remember. She should cry and you should comfort her and then leave her in her room until she is ready to come out. After she is spanked it should be over. I know I was spanked as a young child (3 plus) but do not remember being spanked until I was 7 or 8. I was spanked into my teen years but not often. My husband and I now spank our daughter who is 6 and it is rarely. I usually spank her more often as my husband travels but he spanks her as well.

First off, tell her to stop what she is doing and to go up to her room. Then when you have calmed down, and are not angry. Go up to her and tell her what did that was wrong, explain to her why it was wrong and how it can be bad. Then tell her that you are going to spank her, and go through with what you say, no matter what happens or what she says. Then place her in front of you, pull pants and underwear down, put her over your lap and spank her, make sure that she will think about what happened when she did this, and make sure she wont do it again, then tell her to get up, and then tell her that you will tell her when she can come out. I was spanked occasionaly when i was a kid and this is what happened everytime,

It depends on the age. When my daughter was little I  spanked her in the diaper style, just like my mother spanked me. Now she is 13 and I put her over my lap and spank her bare bottom with a hairbrush, just like my mother did to me, until I got married.I was naughty and so is my daughter so we needed to be spanked hard and often. My father never spanked me. It was always bare bottom with my mother or my aunts.

You take off her clothes.You grab her boobs and say this means your a women.But you point at her head and say your acting like your 3 and then u spank her naked over ur knee.It works.

Firstly I think the Mother should be the one spanks the girls. Back in the day my husband never spanked our girls and they still turned out great because I did it properly. The head of the house definitely does not need to handle *all* discipline issues.

Never use your hand, your hands are for hugging your child not hitting them. Personally, I used a wooden cooking spoon (We called it the bum spoon) and that kept them in line when they needed it.
Aside from that, always spank in private and if it does come to a spanking make sure you get the message across. After a spanking a child should be ready to submit and repent, if there's still any defiance left then they need more spanking. It isn't pleasant I know, but believe me if you give them a proper spanking you won't need to do it often, if you just smack them a few times you'll never get the message across.
I went through with it and gave a good hiding when it was deserved, and because of that I only spanked my kids about five times each after the age of six, and everyone was much happier as a result.