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I'm In Love With A Mother Of 4 Kids I Have 2 Kids ,she Is In USA I'm In UK. Any Suggestions?

I have access to my kids but want to have them with me if I go to the states,don't want to abandon them they're 5 and 6 years old any suggestions

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    Personally if the day came when it was a matter of choosing between a new life in the states without my children then I would stay put.
    If the day came and I was successful at getting custody of my children over their mother then I really don't think I could go ahead and travel thousands of miles away and in effect ruining relations between mother and children.
    Have you met this lady in the states?
    Spent any time with her?
    Discussed things with your children?
    I think you need to spend a good few nights sleeping on this idea.
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    Ironicblis 

    answered 1 year ago

    Thanks for your comment had nothing else on my mind .my kids live with there mother and as i work long hours and late most nights it would be hard to get custody here ! I have met this lady and she sents gifts and cards for kids birthdays they know who she is too, and I've been talking on messenger every night till late for 6 months every day wet ext email and used to call her home phone but that was a lil too expensive but hey as i said all taken on board and I'll be thinking about what you said thanks ironicblis
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    Beamerman

    Beamerman

    commented 1 year ago

    I hope things work out for you I am not for one minute being critical of your new relationship I met my fiancee through the net.Just a shame about the distance.
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    Ironicblis

    Ironicblis

    commented 1 year ago

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