I'm A Player But Is This Right Or Wrong?

What is the goal of our life? Personal fulfillment or more or less? Girls are certainly not there just to be impressed or wooed by you.

Young men are often taught that they must act the 'Player', this is a misuse of their ability to make women happy and be attracted to them.

I do believe that you would be happier if you found a girl or woman who challenged and intrigued you into staying with them and building a relationship. Although there is a strong biological urge to procreate, it's important that you find someone with whom you can be happy over time, because sooner or later you will be old or at least older and you will be less physically attractive to women. Then you will suffer a great shock to your system.

Build friendships with women without aiming to sleep with them. I think your pals are right, but it's great that you are even asking the question. It won't hurt to change your ways, find someone who you can fall in love with and fall, hopelessly, helplessly and stopping yourself.

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What joy do you get out of being a player? Is it the ability to have more that one girl at a time? Is it to look cool in front of your friends? Is it the feeling of the chase-how many girls can I win over? Girls are people and have feelings. You obviously don't. It's wrong.Your issues are deeper...you have feelings of loneliness inside and are afraid of commitment and don't know how to relate to others... You deep down are afraid of being rejected. One of these days, you're going to fall for a girl and she's going to hurt your feelings and you'll know what you've done to all the poor girls' hearts you're breaking, leading on and disrespecting.

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