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    How Do You Get A Deadbeat Mom To Have A Conscience?

    She hasn't made contact with children for over 6 years...Is there any hope?

    asked 4 months ago

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    Unfortunately, it is not possible to make a person have a conscience.  Take solace in the knowledge that life will one day pay her back for it.  Karma is very real.  It may not be until she is old and alone, and wishing she had people around her who care about her... But it will happen.

    answered 4 months ago

    No conscience detected, I guess maybe some people are born that way...Thanks BillZBub...

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      My brother has two girls one of which is his biologically and the other is not but his name is on the birth certificate for both of them he has always carried health insurance for both and took care of them he was never married to there mother and they finally broke up when the girls were 3 and 4 he has only received 12.00 dollars from her in child support she don't have anything to do with them and i have stepped in as the female figure in there life they are now 11 and 12 there mother is always in and out of jail and they know this and there is no way she has a conscience and i don't believe you cannot make her have one until she decides to do the right things in life and grow up!

      answered 4 months ago

      Grow up? That's Right...She told me that when she left and I think I have. I quit drinking/smoking and make plenty of money now. She borrowed money when she left, hasn't paid back a dime and sent ZERO child support...Maybe she'll read this and age enough to call her family...

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      You know, it is really hard to imagine a woman who gave birth could not want to see her children unless she is strung out on drugs or something else is going on in her life that maybe she is embarrassed about.  Do you know how to get in touch with her?  I think it is pretty pathetic.  I  suggest trying to communicate with some of her relaives, her mother, sister, brother, father if possible and see if they can talk to her to see how she feels about seeing her children or maybe someone from the church.  Is there something between the two of you that may prevent her from wanting to see her children.  Even at that, I don't think I would be able to go 6 years without seeing my children. 

      answered 4 months ago

      No one really knows why except for her. I am on very good terms with her Mom and Dad, she won't call them either. I have found some phone numbers on the internet, but no one has called her because of the way she has acted in the past. I guess everyone hopes she will make contact one day...Thanks...

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