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How Do I Get My Brother To Stop?

Okay, my brother has been touching my rear. Hes 11 years old. I guess he is just trying to be annoying when he does that but I wish he would find another way to annoy me because this is just making me feel weird and uncomfortable. He recently started doing this and I don't know where he got this idea from.....anyway i yelled at my brother and told him to stop and he didn't....so i told my mom and

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    First you need to tell him and than tell your parents because that is not cool, you need to speak to him about it and then speak to your parents about this and how it makes you feel......good luck
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    Bgirl525 

    answered 11 months ago

    If this does not work knock the crap out of him,make the tears flow one or two times and he will stop,because this will say I don't like it and not going to stand for it,play with kids your own age....good luck
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    Bgirl525

    Bgirl525

    commented 11 months ago

      You need to tell your parents and when he does it let him know how serious you are about him touching you and how it makes you feel
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      Angell300 

      answered 10 months ago

        Your parents need to stop this behavior now. Its not  a problem you wait to go away. He's capable of understanding his actions are wrong. This boy needs consuling. Your parents should get him some help and stop looking they other way. Help now or prison later, which one will they be facing?
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        Cspook7 

        answered 10 months ago

        I'm sorry! Here's the rest of it:
        and she said to leave it alone. He is just "curious". And I understand that he's at that age where hes about to hit puberty but I don't like him touching me....should i just leave it alone like my mom said? And.let him keep doing it until it passes (which i hope it does)? I thought it was inappropriate but my mom says its not. Is she right? I'm a female
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        Someday985 

        answered 11 months ago

        How old are you
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        Richardajm

        Richardajm

        commented 11 months ago

        Why?
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        Someday985

        Someday985

        commented 11 months ago

        No it is not OK and Mom should speak to him about it,as this could be a sign of something bigger and all boys don't do this especially to their sister,where is Dad perhaps he should know and intervene on this...
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        Bgirl525

        Bgirl525

        commented 11 months ago

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        I could say this, the next time he touches you, slap him, or hit him in the nuts. That will teach him then to mess with you. I would suggest you use your knees
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        Richardajm 

        answered 11 months ago

          I agree. If, by any chance, your parents didn't respond in a way as expected, don't doubt yourself. Turn to other adults you can trust. Don't doubt yourself
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          Ewth 

          answered 10 months ago

          It's inappropriate and if your parents wont do anything you'll just have to take matters in to your own hands. A good knee to the nads wont leave a mark for him to tell on you with. Just don't do it with your parents around. You'll just have to be sneaky.
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          Philthyone 

          answered 10 months ago

          Knock him out. It's no excuse he's just curious. Your parents are idiots to not stop this and are encouraging him to continue. I suppose they'll say the same thing when he gets a girl preg in high school. Oh he's just curious.  If you don't put a stop to it now the next thing he'll be feeling you else where.  Tell other adults in the family if your parents won't listen maybe an aunt or grandma maybe your parents will listen to them.
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          Andie584 

          answered 10 months ago

          Speak to another adult that you trust and ask that person to speak to you parents. This could be a sign of a serious problem. If he is touching you like this, he may start to touch other females. They could have him arrested for harrassment. Let your Mom know that NO means NO whether it is a brother, sister, aunt or uncle or ANY other person. Your Mom has to stop this before it gets really bad. It may be hard to go for help, but NOW is the time, not after a tragedy happens.
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          Guest 

          answered 10 months ago

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