How Do I Find 'The One'?

It's really easy - stop looking for it! you dont find "the one" they find you! and someone who might not appear to be "the one" could become it!
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True about letting it come your way. I believe that there is a person out there for everyone and when the time is right you will know. Another thing is even though at times you might think otherwise I believe it's true. "Every love has a Great story" NOTE: "Every"

examine your own life, look at exactly what makes you complete, never compromise yourself, change for someone and they do not love YOU, never expect to change anyone else either. Love, real love grows from an attraction, it is nurtured and cared for until it is a true mature love, honesty and trust, friendship and companionship, passion and attraction, comfort and familiarity, remember true love is rarely discovered in a club or bar, and when it arrives it will amaze you when you realise it is with you. I believe everyone has more than one "ONE" I am widowed once and divorced once, and am again in love, and hope to spent forever in someones arms. patience, I did not look for it, it found me, I just remain open to the possibility that it can happen.

Of course being attracted to each other is absolutely important however become friends first. Agree with each other that you will both take time to get to know each other before starting a sexual relationship. Many people rush into bed and dont spend enough time communicating and learning about each others qualities,values, wants and needs, likes and dislikes. I have found my special lady (wife) and believe that the time we spent in this way has lead to a very happy marriage.
     

I don't think there is any

Hard to answer you can walk around a corner and their is the one or you travel all over the place and you find the one on the other side of the world .

Finding that special person is never easy.  But there's no excuse to be lonely. If you're not having much luck you can always try online dating.  Online dating is getting so popular with hundreds of people signing up everyday. It's so easy. Once you've registered you just need to make a profile.  The profile usually consists of the things you like. Once you've signed up you can search for exactly the right person for you. Search results can be filtered by many qualities such as location, tastes, personality and lots more preferences.

By being honest

Being honest is the best thing anyone can do!  If you are not honest things in life can come back and bite you in the butt and maybe you will lose the ones that you love.  On line dating is great!  I found my husband of 5 years, online and our life is great!!

be honest and be ya self cos if ya aint both then my friend ya fibbing to ya self and to her and it aint fair on the pair of you

by looking extra hard and by being sociable

if you just go with the flow. sooner or later, youll find that special person. i believe there is a person for everyone out there. for some, there are two =]. i am 16. And i know you dont belive me.. but i have found the woman i love. and will spend my life with. even our parents know i asked her to marry me.
ADVICE: dont go looking for love. let it come to you.

Not bad advice at all coming from a 16 yr old... Of course I've been married longer than he's even been ON this earth. Were I sixteen again...

Try as many relationships as you can, this sounds silly at first. But you don't want to think its all good with one person when in fact you could be much happier with another. "Grass is always greener.." and all that I know but you can never know what you're missing. Plus you'll learn alot about yourself and other people. And don't be too fussy until you know what makes you happy. It takes time.