I love this guy...he is my friend and he smooched me (its d first time for me)i love his behaviour, his attitude etc. I just fell in love with him. But he says he doesnt love me and considers me as a friend then he said to talk to parents about it and if they agree he doesnt have a problem in marrying me. My problem is he doesnt love me. How to make him love me???pls help me
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FFG7 is correct, you can NOT make anyone love you. Love is a thing that can grow. What you can do is let him know how you feel (sounds like you already have) and allow time for him to grow to love you more. By him speaking to his parents and everything, it sounds as if he is already moving in that direction. You both sound like you have been friends for some time and I am sure he does not want to loose a friendship but being friends first can help a relationship be ever so much stronger. Stay with it and let love flourish and grow. Keep on striving for his love but don't push to hard as he will begin to back away.
answered 11 months ago
You simply can't make someone love you. What you can do is make room for love to grow. All of the loves that I have had in life had become such vital parts of my life that when they left there was a big void in my soul. Sometimes I didn't realize how much they meant to me till they were absent from life. Spend time together have fun and most importantly gain new experiences together. As these experiences grow in number your relationship may grow in strength. If it is meant to be it will.
answered 11 months ago
thanx a lot for ur valuable advise....u r rite i have already told him and he had many relations in the past so he is tired of the whole thing and doesnt expect anything in future. im trying not to be too pushy but scared if i loose him. but thanx a lot for ur guidance.
comment made by Butifulme 11 months ago
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