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Why Can't I Meet A Nice Girl Who Wants To Date One Person? ME?

I am 22 and I am smart, clean and a nice guy. And my friends who are girls say I have good looks. I work two jobs and have my own apartment and I am also going to school part time for electrical engineering. I am not a jerk. All the girls I know and meet are playing games and it seems like they always want to date guys who are mean to them. I hear what some of those guys say and it makes me sick. Why can't I find a nice girl? What should I do?

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    Boy, do you sound like my brother....
    I am going to say to you exactly what I said to him.
    Quit looking!!! That's your problem.
    My brother has hooked up with some real bit*hes that has treated him like donkey booty and he always got hurt and used in the long run.
    You know what I told him???
    I told him that he needed to start focusing more on himself & his career and not so much on "hooking up" with the ladies.
    My brother is a hard worker and gives 100% at everything he does.
    He doesn't need those types of ladies cramping his style....& neither do you!
    You shouldn't degrade your manlyhood to have to "look" for a lady.
    The woman of your dreams IS out there. J
    ust be patient, and enjoy YOUR life.
    Your time WILL come.
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    Christinej 

    answered 2 years ago

    Thank you for your answer but I am not looking just waiting. And I think I'm doing a great job with my career and working 2 jobs. It would be nice to meet someone, that's all
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    Druid

    Druid

    commented 2 years ago

    I am sorry if I misunderstood your question & I have no doubt your a hard worker.
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    Christinej

    Christinej

    commented 2 years ago

      Wow, you sound like a really great, nice guy and it is a sad fact that
      nice guys are the last thing some women are looking for.  In spite
      of that, I bet there are a lot of women who would love to meet somebody
      like you.

      Do you have much time for socializing?  It sounds like you are
      really busy with two jobs and school.  If you have the time, you
      might try going out with a group of friends.  Let some of your
      female friends know that you would like to meet somebody.  Join a
      club or some other social organization.

      I don't know if you're comfortable with any of those suggestions, but they might be ways to meet people.  

      I wish you the very best.  :)
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      Nanny 

      answered 2 years ago

      thank you
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      Druid

      Druid

      commented 2 years ago

        Oh yeah totally, stop looking and youll find it, i was told the same thing before i got a boyfriend and i thought that was ridiculous! But it is sooo true! Its hard to "stop looking" but just try,
        It Will Come To You!
        Promise
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        Annamae627 

        answered 2 years ago

        thank you
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        Druid

        Druid

        commented 2 years ago

        I would date you, you sound really nice and by the way you described yourself very cute. But i cant date you cuz I am only like 14. Good luck finding someone!!
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        Pokeluv3 

        answered 2 months ago

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