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Is It Bad That I Have Not Gotten Over My Ex?

We were together for about 2 months and of course like many others I did love him. However I guess it was not enough. He broke up with me about 2 months ago.I still talk to him like as a best friend,I always get jealous whenever he talks to other girls.So is it bad that i still do love him more than a friend?Please help me I really need help

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    It will take some time for you to get over someone you loved and shared memories with. It's only bad if it's getting in the way of you finding someone new or if you let thinking about him or caring about him interfere with your life. I see nothing wrong with staying friends with exs but it makes it harder to move on sometimes. If you feel like it's a bad thing maybe you should slowly distance yourself from him.
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    Ladylena  

    answered 2 years ago

      Let me caution you about two month love. I think love at that point can only be the love you have for another human being.  If you keep saying you are romantically  in love, you will believe it. You will eventually get those feelings out of your system. How often did you tell him you loved him. Men usually don't like clingy women, neither do they fall in love as fast. You may frighten them off. There is a world out there to be discovered. Just have fun now, and when you start dating again, let your mind focus on the fact that it is just a date. We love men who are nice and respectful, and yes good looking, but if they are not ready for heavy relationships, they are to be applauded. It is always better to get to know someone better before the L word comes out, even if that is what is truly in your heart. In such a short time you cannot possibly know how this person reacts to other situations. Did he have a girlfriend that he abused? Is he a drug user? Does he respect you and the ones around you. Thing is, even after we marry sometimes it take many, many months to see the true person. We are in  positive behavior while the relationship is new.  Go, have fun and dont mistake fun, good times, infatuation, or a need to be a couple as love.  I wish you well.
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      Gsharon710  

      answered 2 years ago

        You really will move on from this guy its just still too early ,i wouldn't put a time limit on getting over this everyone is different what i would suggest is not spending as much time around this person its just adding to your upset meet new people there is so much world out there take care
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        Sunnyd  

        answered 2 years ago

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