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How Do I Cheer Up My Depressed Girlfriend?

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    All you can do is try mate, don't try and be a hero. Just try and see things from her point of view, be supportive, help her with whatever treatment she is on and most importantly remember that you are not the problem. She has a problem and needs help yes, but this does not mean that you are at all to blame. There isn't a single relationship without problems they just come up in different forms.

    As for cheering her just try simple tokens of affection, flowers, hugs, kisses. They might do the trick, but then again they might Just get thrown back in ur face.

    Hope this helps
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    Tyron1172 

    answered 6 months ago

      You take her to the movies or dinner
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      Mangely97 

      answered 5 months ago

        You can't cheer up someone with real depression.  Real clinical depression is a medical mental health disorder and it can't be cheered up by anything other than a major psychological or neurological change.  Many people in this situation choose to use medication, but some use more personal method such as dietary change, exercise and some counselling or CBT with a psychiatrist.  CBT is Cognitive Behavioural Therapy.

        If you love your girlfriend very much, you should be very supportive and help her through this hard time.  She might not thank you, she might be difficult, negative and down right annoying, but you need to stay strong and positive and make sure that you are part of her recovery.  Be part of that recovery by encouraging her to seek help, she won't want to because it seems more painful than simply hiding away.

        Persevere.  This is going to be tough, but you will get through it.
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        Epictetus 

        answered 3 years ago

        hey, i have Benn depressed for a year!! and bit! my boyfriend now has helped me through it with out pills! and professional help! this is what you can do! if she knows that you are there, your supportive then that ll be good, she needs a safety net and also to not argue with her!!! believe it or not Hun her happiness rests on you! your the only one that prbaly keeps her stable and stops her from killing herself!<< don't think that she will do! but like what I'm saying is be there for her give her a shoulder and stop arguing with her and try and let her know that she can talk to you! and your help her :) it helped me.. ATM I'm stable :) with my boyfriend. but i am still in depression because when ever me and my boyfriend have a row i go soo low :( so you have to realise that your all she got :) hope this helps!! emaxx
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