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Should I Have A Baby Now Or Wait Till I Get Out Of School?

I want to have a baby now but is it the right time?

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    You should wait until you get out of school so that you can have more time with the baby.
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    Jessmw_jmw 

    answered 2 years ago

      Wait until you leave school and have your own place and are earning money and have a supporting partner to help your so young yet enjoy this time for yourself plenty of time later for children when you have more time and are financially secure to enjoy them take care
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      Sunnyd 

      answered 2 years ago

        I think that school requires lots of work and attention. If you work and go to school, then you have your hands full. It is difficult to take care of a baby and go to school, but possible if you have LOT"S of support. I would not recommend that someone try to handle a baby and school if they had a choice. I have gone to school when my baby was 3 mos. Old but my Mother helped a lot, and it was still tough.
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        Pencil 

        answered 2 years ago

        I'd wait and I'm hoping you mean college and not high school. Having children is the hardest but most fulfilling thing out there. Finish your schooling then go from there. Life is hard enough, I wouldn't add an innocent child into your busy life right now.
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        Knutrbuttr 

        answered 2 years ago

        I would wait until you get out of school
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        Coondog101 

        answered 2 years ago

        I Would really Wait Until Your Schooling Is Done.. Have because In The Future If You Have Kids You Might Not Finish Your Schooling And You wont Have A decent Job. ( Well You Might but never know )
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        Kcrdancer

        commented 2 years ago

          No, I am 17 and still in school. I am 5 months pregnant and it is hard to stay focused on my school work and worry bout what to do to keep my baby safe while in school. I just wish i would have waited i mean i have to get a job to support her and everything. Her dad left me because he said he was too young to have a kid so i am a single teenager with a kid on the way.
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          Madison91 

          answered 2 years ago

          If I were you, I would wait until I get out of school. Otherwise, you will be caught up in schoolwork, and won't get a chance with your baby.
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          Supahstah 

          answered 2 years ago

          You have plenty of time to have children and think about graduating from school and see what you want to do with your life before you add any responsibility to the roster , cause it's just a phase and they come and go and it will go here any minute.
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          N2umee 

          answered 8 months ago

          Concentrate on your school work so that you may better yourself and be able to provide for you and your family when the time is right.  Wait until after school to even think about starting a family.  It is not just having a baby - it is being mature enough to raise your child, to provide for the child, to be willing to change your lifestyle as your child will now be your life.
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          Dmj 

          answered 5 months ago

             
             

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