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I hate to be "that guy" (well, actually I rather enjoy it), but if there are any guys out there who have taken a girl's virginity can attest, it is rarely an enjoyable experience. The two times that I have (didn't learn my lesson the first time), I was locked into a terrifying cat-and-mouse game of thriller movie-esque stalkerdom that was pretty terrifying, on both accounts. I understand a certain clingy-ness to a degree, and maybe it was this, or maybe it was them, or maybe I'm a jerk but it was serious wake me in the night, had to change my number, showing up at my house at three in the morning type of stuff. I can only imagine the horror of being married to that.
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Lol based from experience..hahahahha
Wow i must really be different i never even called the guy after my first time lol you must have found the psychos papa smurf
Sure suck up
I tend to agree with the above...although not the most important, sex is a huge part of a loving marriage. Not only should he be worried if the two of you are "compatible", there exists the strong possibility of you wanting to venture out later in life because you have missed out on many experiences. Ask yourself this, how if he is poor in bed but is a great person...is this something that you can live with and not want to venture out of the relationship for the rest of your life?
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Can you please define the word marriage? Or what would make you marry a person??.. Its not about sex... Neither is just about personality.. Well for me.. I will only marry a person when you are inlove.. And with love you have no exact reasons.. It just happen.. All i know is when you love you accept that person.. From his strength down to his weakness.. Just my thought.. If you really love him..
He is honest and i sgree with him
Having a Virgin as a wife is thing of Joy and also is a Pride, that is what is God is expecting from us, to have a virgin as a wife, but most ladies had been de - flowered just because of lack of patience. To have a virgin as a wife is a blessing to you and the family, and you will make a happy and peaceful home, there will trust between both spouse. That has been my dream because i have never had sex before, not even ones, so i want someone like me.
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Woah!!! I wonder how old he is.. Im pretty sure his a guy.. His dream is to have a virgin wife.. Right?? I hope he has registered!! Would love to talk to you man!!! =D
From a girls point of view, most of my friends have lost thier virginity's, but i always say that i want to wait till im married, and i think it would be a special gift to give to my husband that know one else has........my virginity.
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That's exactly how I feel... I'm waiting until marriage before getting into that kind of thing. And I agree that it would be a kind of "special gift" to give to your significant other, and I think it will make the experience all the more special.
Excactly.....and i actually decided that before i even became a christain
I can't agree more.. Im so happy that there are still people your age think of it.. Just go where you are happy.. =)
I believe that if I was close enough to another girl and taking things seriously, I would probably sleep with them before marriage (unless they object). I would still obviously cherish their gift, but whether we are married or not wouldn't be a concern of mine, because I am not religious.
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Why is it probably??? I mean is it really something you need to know first before go marriage? What she like in bed? Hey im not trying to be rude here.. Just that curious as to why guys prefer it.. Lol
Not at all. I can honestly say that it wouldn’t bother me. I’m not that experienced myself, but even if I was I don‘t believe my opinion would change. It’s just that if I love somebody I wouldn’t necessarily need to wear a ring to show or prove this - which is why I would consider sex as the next big stage in the relationship, rather than marriage. I wouldn’t take another girls virginity if I wasn’t serious about the relationship and had any doubts about my love for them.
Great bec that is how God intended it to be..
Girls these days and guys just give it way to anyone and do not respect God and wait till marriage.
Girls these days and guys just give it way to anyone and do not respect God and wait till marriage.
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I got married in a love marriage. Both of us love each other really much. It is against my religion to make love outside marriage. We both had that patience. After a year of meeting her, I got married to her. We still dont feel married. We still have our laughs. We help each other through tough times, and wish the best for each other. We were both virgins before marriage. I have my full trust in her, and she trusts me too. I think both being virgin before marriage builds a strong bond.
I just love my wife soo much!!!
I just love my wife soo much!!!
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Virgins are not the treat everyone believes them to be. They have no clue,and no skills or abilities in bed. Its like buying a new car with no engine. You can keep your virgins
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I like your side.. Though your too focus on the sexual side.. Having a virgin wife/bride.. Means having you as the only man she have.. Don't you think your special? For she can always have someone else but chooses you.. Your a man.. Surely you can teach her lots of stuff.. Could be fun hon! ;)
Tinga, virgins are all about the sex, which they no nothing about. Giving herself to me is not an honor ,understand that item is not made of gold nor does it rate anymore respect than other charms Virginity is old school it sounds like something wonderful because it has this larger than life reputation.Please people its just a vagina all women have them. OKAY! One more metaphor and I'm done. If you hire a gardener would you hire one that never gardened,I guess its personal choice I choose exp.
Ok.. Now i fully understand your side.. Thanks,,, =) but i do just wanna tell you that not all virgin girls means they know nothing in bed.. Yes they may lack the skills but some have enough knowledge (especially those in the medical field).. I respect your opinion.. If having a virgin wife for you has something to do with just pure sex then okay.. You strike me as someone who wouldn't accept a lady for not being good in bed..
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