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Is It Wrong To Get Jealous Of Every Guy Your Girl Friend Talks To ?

My girl friend is a type of girl that hugs guys at and that bothers me .

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    Hi, being a little jealous, I think is normal, but when it becomes an obsession then that's a problem.  I think a lot of relationships end because of lack of trust and low self esteem.  Learn to trust your partner; if she loves you she will always respect you.  Stop making a problem for yourself.  If you start accusing her of something, she may stop seeing you.  Enjoy her and be thankful for your relationship, if it is a good relationship no one can separate you.  Also, I think it is healthy for people to have male and female friends.  Take Care!
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    Healthlady 

    answered 2 years ago

      Oh being jealous is so normal. I feel it all the time. My ex boyfriend used to call all his friends that were girls his "second, third, fourth, fifth,.. Etc., girlfriends." That tipped me off that he was not loyal- and I was right. But if he is just chatting- here is my advice. Keep your distance, I wouldn't want my boyfriend prying into my guy friend relationships. BUT, [this is important] keep a very close eye on the girls who he talks to most. It's like knowing exactly what is going on, without letting your guy know that. Be in control, even if it is in secret.
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      Kkaattieex 

      answered 2 years ago

        I would find it strange if you did not get jealous of your girlfriend hugging a guy friend! It is 100% normal. But you have to understand that these people may have been in her life for a long time, and they have always hugged when they see one another. Does she do it right in front of you or do you hear about it from others? If she does it when you are there, there must not be any feelings behind it, or why would she let you see it? It sounds to me like she is just friendly, I wouldn't worry. But, showing signs of jealousy can be harmful to a relationship. If she really is not doing anything wrong, then you making a big deal about her talking to guys will raise a red flag and she may leave you because of it. Jealousy is probably the cause of 25% of breakups. When she is talking to a guy friend walk up to her and give her a kiss, make sure these guys know you are there, maybe even become friends with them and you will feel more comfortable about their time spent around your girl. Good luck with it!
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        Karen4s2 

        answered 2 years ago

        No not really it just depends on how jealous you get, now the limits.
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        Redeagle 

        answered 8 months ago

        I dont think its wrong. I do the same thing to my fiance. I'm super jealous tho. Just don't ruin your relationship with it... I almost did
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        Luvmygrls 

        answered 8 months ago

          No because every guy does not want their girl around another guy
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          Guest 

          answered 7 months ago

          Well being jealous is
          Normal lol like i recon id be too because maybe shes just that type lol
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          Darbee 

          answered 7 months ago

          No unless they are flirting.
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          Janms 

          answered 7 months ago

          No it isnt wrong. Because she may be flirting with them
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          Kierra_b 

          answered 7 months ago

          My boyfriend says im his first love..but then he has a second love [priyanka chopra] he's only suppose to have one love..i hate it when he does that. I get jealous.
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          Guest 

          answered 6 months ago

            No it isn't because i always get jealous when i see my boyfriend talking to a girl even more if she is attractive and seems to like him
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            Anique 

            answered 6 months ago

            (eye roll) its ok if your girl friend talk to other guys.but ask your self, is she  flirty when she talks to other guys,are they rely cute or popular?if the answer is yes briefly bring it up but don't make it into a big deal.
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            Puppyluv97 

            answered 3 months ago

            There is nothing wrong, unless & until it crosses the limits.
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            Skyadamani 

            answered 2 years ago

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