Illicit Relationship With An Older Girl...? What To Do?

Last year i had an an educational consultant. She was young(25) and clever and could help me be admitted in an excellent university. After working together for several months i fell in love with her in some way(withOUT considering the whether she was married or not). She is not married and really likes me. I like her too but I'm thinking to find a way to finish this illicit relationship.

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Nsuns

asked 2 years ago

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In what way do mean finish? Cut it off? Why? If you are done with the admission process then there should not be a conflict of interest if you ask her out. My first long term girlfriend happened to be 31 when I was only 19. It was one of the most educational, enlightening and enjoyable relationships I have had. It let me know what I should expect from an adult or mature relationship with a WOMAN and not a girl. I dated some "girls" after and was never happy or satisfied. I have dated "girls" that are older and younger than me, as well as "women" that are older or younger. It is all about the connection and your/her maturity.

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Lojikal

answered 2 years ago

I see no need to end it if you like her and the feeling is mutual. The best thing to do would be to explain to her that you needed her guidance and assistance, and some where along the lines you fell for her. Explain that your focus and concentration should be on school with no time for relationships. If she's older, I'm sure she will understand and feel flattered at the same time.