I Love This Boy But He Likes Another Girl And I Get Jealous When I See Them, What Should I Do?

You need to be at peace within yourself about this. I know that may sound like a pat answer but getting mad makes you miserable. It's ok to feel that but it's not healthy for you to stay in that place or for the people that you care about. I understand your protectiveness of him especially when you care about someone but you have to trust him. Just keep being his friend. When you truly love someone there is a peace about it.
*This is just something to think about.... sometimes when a person is infatuated with another person feelings go through the roof almost scary when it comes to having anyone else having interaction with the person they care about.
*Is it possible that you are infatuated with this boy?
*If you're not then cool. I just wanted to make sure that you realize where your emotions can go and why.

Try to relax and be his friend and allow him to have other friends that are girls. It's ok. You're doing great. I'm proud of you. For expressing how you feel and for asking for advice.

Become friends with the guy first. Most likely he will be able to figure out that you think of him as more than a friend. If he likes you too, he will make a move. If not, go find someone else. Its a big world.

I'm forever giving this boy I love, advice on how to get another girl. I can totally relate to the song 'Been Waiting' by Jessica Mauboy. Unconditional love I think is the first step. But I'm just a friend to him. I will probably never tell him what I really feel, but I am just glad that we're friends, telling him would ruin the friendship. I've accepted this, doesn't stop me wishing but its better than not having him at all. Try looking for someone else.

By him candy or flowers  or be honest and say you like you as soon as he breaks up and ask him to be your girl friend and if he says yes, that is good but if he says no, give him more time and ask him again and he says yes that is really GOOD!

GROW  UP   AND   ACT   MATURE  ,  THERE   IS  NO  WAY  HE  IS  GOING   TO  LIKE    YOU   ANY  BETTER  ..SERIOUSLY,  MOVE  ON  AND  GET   A  LIFE  WITH   A  MAN  THAT  WILL  SHOW  YOU  UNCONDITIONAL   LOVE  ,  IF  YOUR   LOVE  IS  SO  STRONG  THEN  YOU  NEED   TO  GET  SOME  COUNSELLING  FOR  OBSESSIONAL  BEHAVIOURS.

I happen to know the answer to this.. I'm in the same boat right now.
You gotta tell him how you feel before its too late, lifes to short to mess around, were getting older everyday, so don't let these moments pass you by, if you love this guy just tell him, take a chance.
Best of luck

I am in the same position!I really like this boy but he "acts" like he likes this girl so nobody knows if he really does like her because hes fridge and shes a slut!Anyway....I think you should tell him! And if he doesnt feel the same way Make Him! :D- Always talk to him- FLIRT!- Make him laugh- Show him that you like him without even telling him.

Never tell him you love him  he might tell his girlfriend
forget about him move on

I am the SAME this boy is constantly on and off what ever u do don't ask him out i asked my crush out on im but know he signs off wen i sign on

If you like this boy, become his friend. Let him take the time to get to know you so he can discover your good qualities. If he is worth the time, than he will have the chance to get to know you and decide if he likes you, than he might tell you how he feels. If he sees you simply as a friend than it is good that he at least respects you as one. Show him how fun and caring you are and if he can recognise a good girl than he will realise you are the best person for him.

Im in the same position. I hate thee girl he likes. Just become friends with him, then when the moment is right, tell him how you feel

Well.....if you love him that much then tell him. But dont really tell him you love him tell him you like him and see how things go from there.     You cant make ppl love you, although some ppl would be alot happier if they could.

Ok....

Be rather cautious about your feelings for him, because what you are describing to me
sounds more like obsession/infatuation rather than love.

Like a previous person said, when your in love with someone you will be at peace when they are with someone else.

For example, I heard that my crush has a girlfriend, and even though my hopes are crushed,
I feel happy for him because at least one of us has a significant other, even if it is not with each other.

The only time I DO get jealous is when he talks with this 1 girl, who used to be a friend of mine but I dumped her because she's a boyfriend stealing b****. (I'm Just Bitter, And shameless about it to!)

But, to the situation at hand, if he likes the other girl, theres nothing you can do.
If your friends with him, then that's better than nothing.

Cheers Darling

Just  take a deep breath whenever you see them together or talking. Or, you could just ask him how he feels about you. Let him know how you feel about him.

Well, I have experienced this it sucks! The think to do is just play it COOL. How do you know that he does not like the girl but just pretends to because he really likes you. That's what happened to me. All I have to say to you is GOOD LUCK!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

You should be friends and support (spelled wrong) him or maybe find somebody else that you kind of had feelings for but not that much of it. I am in the same problem i was not there for 1 day because of the dentice and when i came back he is with his old girlfriend's best friend well  and i really love him too. But i hope this kinda help sorries

I think you should tell the boy how you feel
say it face to face not online or texting
and then just leave him to think about it
and wait and see he mite feel the same about you
just talk to him tell him how you feel ::) hope that helped x

You can't make someone love you. The best thing to do may be to try to get over him. I know that that may be hard, but think about it. If he doesn't feel the same way about you that you feel about him, there's nothing you can do about it. Yes, it hurts, but this girl isn't at fault either. Put yourself in her shoes. If he liked you would you give him up just because someone else liked him too? No, probably not. If the boy and his gf ever break up, go for it! Until then, you might want to find a new crush. I hope everything works out.

Id say try to find a different guy who you mite love even more but if u cant seem to and cant stop thinking bout him then id say become friends with him and so on...

Okay well I had this same problem. I was in love with this boy, I would do absolutely anything for him and were Bff, but he hurt me so many times that i just couldn't take it. Listening to your friends would also work. My friend kept telling me to get over him and that hes not worth it. And it took me a couple of weeks to realize that and that's okay. Try to find someone else. Maybe he's trying to get you jealous? Now I tried it with this boy and it didn't work out. So maybe you should ask a friend to find out if he likes you or just get over him. Boys are stupid. Haha just remember that. I know it's hard to get over him but if he doesnt like you then just relax, wait and you'll find someone else. Don't waste your time on this one boy.....because you deserve better :)
Thanks I hope this advice works PS: Don't do stupid things for this boy bye! ;)

I am in the same situation. The guy i like is shorter than me and he is my best friend though. I think you should just be his friend and work your way up or you could just tell him how you feel. I think i will try that.

I'm in the same positon too! I like this but i think he likes another girl so i'm just staying friends with him. Anyway i think if you really like this boy then you should be happy for him and don't try too ask him out because he might get annoyed at u and start ignoring you. So in the meantime try to find another boy thats available and ask him out and if this boy you 'love' breaks up with this girl he likes then go for it! But for now just be happy for him because there are plenty of fish out in the sea. Hope this helps! Xx

My guess is dont be afraid but just tell him how you feel im sure he will understand      


get him into a quiet corner and just tell him if he laughs im sure you will find someone who loves you

You should try to get close to him and start to know each.Then start to get busy and then the other girl will get jealous .

Well just break them up and talk to him about stuff he likes like moter cycles to get his attention!

U should get his action to U or U can do stuff he likes.