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What If I Cannot Have An Orgasm?

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    Actually....it doesnt matter how old you are.....9 10 11 12 doesnt really matter...any age or size you can still have one.....it just means that whoever your dealing with isnt giving it to you how it should be givin.....

    Heres some advice.....let him/her know that this is a problem then be the commander of the intercourse and tell him/her what makes YOU feel good
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    Tajinea 

    answered 7 months ago

      Everyone can...... How old are you? If u are younger than 16-17 you proubaly wont have one..... And if u are older maybe its the person ur sleeping with?
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      Hollygirl 

      answered 7 months ago

        My dear, it is really natural that u dont have one,, in fact according to numbers ladies who can reach one are few, and the TV makes it look so easy to even have multiple ones...making us feel guilty and stupid some how.. I would tell u dont give up, i have been married for 5 years and i learned hoe to reach little bit more than one year ago... U just have to keep trying and once you have one, the others will be easier for u..anyway here are some tips i hope they can be useful
        1- before you start having sex you should really want to, im not  talking about romance.. Im talking about this urge to have sex, u just cant have the idea out of your head... Without this feeling it will be hard for you to reach...unlike men, women orgasms are harder to get.if your partner want to have sex and you dont, thats fine just enjoy with no constrains u dont feel like it anyway and dont blame yourself afterwards, on the contrary this might be the thing that will turn you on later
        2- if you dont reach dont ever try to think of handling it by yourself, that will put you in a circle, but take advantage of this moment and demand sex
        3- let your partner make you feel good before intercourse, most ladies like direct action using fingers
        4- the easiest position for women to reach is when the man is on top try that
        5- when you start feeling good, concentrate, dont feel shy and go on, stretch your legs while he is still there that really helps..
        I hope i helped
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        Damdoom 

        answered 7 months ago

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