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Does getting a g-f just happen or do you have to make a move? Because I'm an extremely shy person. Could you also tell me what the average age is of getting a girlfriend? (I'm 13)

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    There is no average age on getting a girl friend it happens when it happens...

    it's ok being a shy person but you need to come out of your shell a little. Girls like the gentle, friendly type but not always so dont go changing your self for no girl!!

    if you want a girlfriend get chatting to the ladies and flirt a little bit with them and get to know that special little someone and hopefully you find the right girl for you.

    hope this helps you good luck x  
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    Brumchick 

    answered 2 years ago

    thank you , that was the best help i have ever heard!!! the!!!!
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    Blahblah08

    Blahblah08

    commented 2 years ago

      Heyy all u gotta do is just find out about the girl you like, her interests and stuff thats your first move.
      Find out through her friends or your friends and then start a conversation with her.
      Its always good to know something about them before you start to date them
      And as for the age? It doesn't really matter the age, just what you do for example you wouldn't go to the movies ALONE with her you'd invite maybe another couple your own age so its less awkward.

      hope this helps!
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      Shortie113 

      answered 2 years ago

      wow..... brilliant answer. i think i just might do that!!!!!
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      Blahblah08

      Blahblah08

      commented 2 years ago

        Well I'm a girl so i can help you...
        First of all BE YOURSELF, most girls tend to not care whether your shy, confident. If you want a girlfriend then come across kind, sweet and open. Just because your shy doesn't mean you can't have the girl you want, it is all down to the person inside.  And besides it not the time to be worried about girlfriends at 13 just concentrate on exams and school, but keep an open mind cause that lucky girl might just come walking your way.
        Dilworthexxx
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        Dilworthe 

        answered 2 years ago

        amazing answer thnx a lot!!!!!!!!!
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        Blahblah08

        Blahblah08

        commented 2 years ago

        Well, I'm 12 so im younger then you and I 'am a boy too and i gt a gf so here is some tips

        1.Be yourself as girls like a friendly and playful type, but don't change yourself for a girl.

        2.Use a "Middle-man" like her friend to ask her if she likes u back...well the girl's friend asked me if i like her.

        3a.If she likes you then be cool about it, hang out with her sometimes but don't get red in the face too often...otherwise she will get annoyed(i.e my friends asked me to hug my GF so i was ok but then ask to kiss her but if u can't just be cool and say"we are not that far yet." and don't let peer pressure push you because it will end up in a disaster.

        3b.if she doesn't don't cry about it well try to be here friend and then she will like you.

        4.Most likely,if she likes you, u should het her a gift like a neckales with your pictures in it(i"m giving that to my gf on X-mas") and she will be happy.But if u recive one...Don't lose it or she won't trust u anymore.

        5. To stay with her you have to communicate 24-7(almost) but you should put more time for test and stuff because you have more time in the future.

        6.try to be playful with her but not too much...or you will be annoying to her.

        7.there is no too early to have a GF,but 12 is pre-teen and thats a little early...and put more time on test because thats only one chance

        8.OK my hands hurt....but in all don't let this tak over you as this will consume time and you need it for test. Well this is all i can give for now later updates from me so bye
        P.S my Gf was with me for 4 days but will last for at least a year i have so much time

        From,
                 the 12 year old pre-teen with a gf............
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        Guest

        Guest 

        answered 3 months ago

        Well you are gonna have to make some move ask a friend of that girl to tell her you like her and ask her how she feels and if she feels the same way than ask her to hang out sometime. Its not as easy as it sounds but you got to go for what you want
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        Speedogurl 

        answered 2 years ago

          Hope this helps i am the same age as you and i am also like you, the one thing is be yourself and act normal it may take some time so wait one day something will happen and 'till then you just enjoy yourself and do what feels right.

          Good Luck!!
          From The Wise One (Not that anyone else is'nt just i am!)
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          Guest 

          answered 7 months ago

          Average age is whenever you feel ready to make a commitment to a person, also remember in choosing that looks arent everything!

          And im a 13 year old girl and when a guy make a move on me im either delighted or feel violated, sexual moves are never EVER going to get you far. What i like most is when a guy tells me a funny pick up line or they say something like "i just figured i introduce myself, im ____"
          theres something about a guy who can make me smile.

          And about the being shy thing, my brother was very shy too at thirteen but now he is SO outgoing,he kept telling himself " Half the people you meet in life your never going to see again"
          so use that motto to get you far
          and im pretty sure if you just open up meeting new people and girls will be the least of your worries!

          Good Luck!

          -Erica
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          Guest

          Guest 

          answered 6 months ago

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