What Is Love, Is Love A Physical Attraction Or Infatuation?

Every practice of your loved one creates a memory. Love becomes a collection of feelings, created by the collection of memories of your loved one. Marriages fail because people do not know what their collection of love is and how to protect it. Marriages become happy when couples understand what love is and how to add to their collection.

Love at first sight is simply attraction. Attraction can make your knees weak. It can make you amazed. It can hit you over the head like a baseball bat. It can be magical. But, you do not really need it to make a marriage last.

Common definitions, such as "puppy love," or "having a crush," do not help us, because they do not recognize the power of obsession to make you mad. A better definition is: provisional madness that makes a person deaf, blind, and dumb. It is a shape of madness, even though it feels amazing and is an incredible feeling. You see no faults. It feels like love, but it is not. Obsession turbo-charges your experiences with your lover so that an ordinary moment becomes an extraordinary memory. Sadly, obsession always goes away, and all of a sudden your loved one is simply a normal human being. To have a happy marriage, you need to know the real truth about obsession.