I'm 12. My Girlfriend Is Sort Of Shy. She Lives Right Next Door To Me. We Never Talk. How Can I Step It Up Without Getting Dumped? She Used To Be My Best Friend So If I Get Dumped I'm Screwed.

Just give your girlfriend some time and understanding. She is just a bit uncomfortable from the shift of being your best friend to a girlfriend. She is not sure how to act around you any more. Why don't you take her out and do one of those activities that you did previously with her? That might break the ice. Best of Luck!

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Ask her for a movie. She doesn't talk to you because she is shy. What is the point of going out with her if you two don't talk? Try striking up a good conversation by asking her for a walk. If she doesnt talk,then why don't you do all the talking? Try to get her out of her shyness. If she dumps you,then it just wasn't meant to be,find somebody who knows how to talk to a guy. I used to be shy like that when i was 12. I slowly got out of my shy stage when i realized that i need to talk to keep the relationship going.

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She doesn't talk because she is shy and if you can't talk to her. At least try to find out what is her hobbies and try opening up a discussion with her or her family members in her household. Once you discover her hobbies or exciting things she likes to do participate in them with her to get her to open up as well as start up a conversation.

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