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When You Are Engaged And Together For 6 Yrs, The First 5 Yrs You Don't Use Protection Because Both Of You Had Been Tested. Then Within The Last Yr He's Wanted To Use Condoms..... We Both Don't Want Children And He Says He's More Worried Now......Then before. It's an equal opinion. I know the obvious, but he seems to disagree so I need as many people to express there opinions and thoughts. Thanks for your help and support :)

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    He could have had an affair or maybe he's being more careful about getting you pregnant. You'll have to look for signs of an affair.
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    Mtapply  

    answered 1 year ago

      Well the least I could say here is that communication is a big thing that doesn't happen amongst couples these days...not to point fingers...because I believe most of us have a hard time explaining how we feel about things. Please get him into a place where  you both can talk about this alone and ask him upfront what may be going on...what may seam as an apparent cover up in our minds could simply be a new look on keeping you both safe. Bringing a child into this world should be well thought through... If indeed this is the reason he chose to do this... Both of you come to this agreement on what to do. I sure hope this helps you...please please talk to him and let him know what you are thinking... If he listens and reacts reasonably you both will be better off.
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      Jacob05  

      answered 1 year ago

        He could be more careful, because before it wasn't really or he could have discovered some sort of sickness or something, have you tried asking him why?
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        Lovewreck  

        answered 1 year ago

        How long have you been engaged?  Six years?  What's taking him so long to close the deal?
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        Gracern1  

        answered 5 months ago

        1.  Yes, he might have had an affair and is trying to be careful not to transmit any disease he may have caught

        2.  He may think that you are fooling around and he is trying to be careful not to catch anything you might be bringing home
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        Guest  

        answered 4 months ago

          Hmm..Well it depends on what's going on with him..Talk to him to see what's going on with him && why all of a sudden he wants to use condoms.. But on your mind do you worried like he does too? && also do you prefer condoms too???Talk to him to see what's up with him and why all of a sudden..
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          Kutielious  

          answered 1 year ago

          Sounds like maybe he's having an affair, is afraid of having a kid with you because he wants to leave you. I'd talk to him more because before he wasn't like that.... Good Luck!
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          Momtobeo9  

          answered 1 year ago

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