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What Should You Do If Someone Is Always Putting You Down?

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    No matter what you do in life; and no matter where you go, there will always be someone who will criticize you. Although this can be very frustrating and hurtful, there is something that you can do about.

    The main thing you should do is not return the criticism. If someone is talking bad about you, you should not talk bad about them. If you talk bad about them, then you are lowering yourself to their level. The best tool that you can use in a situation like this is to talk nice about the person who is talking bad about you. You are better than they are, and you should not lower yourself to their level by doing the stupid things that they do.

    As they say, two wrongs do not make a right. They are probably talking bad about you because they are jealous. So, just hold your hold head up, shake it off and press forward with your life.
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    Bulldog 

    answered 3 years ago

    That jealous statement is so wrong it hurts my eyes. In the military we do it to each other just because I'm not jealous of anybody, but we will say some mean stuff just because its funny.
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    Howdyho

    Howdyho

    commented 3 years ago

      If I were you and thought this person really meant what they say, I'd definatly ask why they do it.  That stupid comment about jealousy is rediculous thats something your parents say when your 6 years old.  Just try to be assertive about the situation, and dont let words make you mad thats just not something you should worry about.  "Sticks and stones may break your bones but this person's words shouldnt hurt you"  they are just words.  Why do you care what this person has to say anyway?  They obviously aren't your buddy if you dont like what they are saying all the time.  You might also try just avoiding the person if possible.  Otherwise, take no interest in their words or tell ur boss... somebody might care to let that person know if it really bothers you all that much..  Hope it helps, later
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      Howdyho 

      answered 3 years ago

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