My Wife Is Torn Between Me And Another Man, What Should I Do?

Well I've had a similar issue with my gf. Its hard to say what you should do. On one hand you don't want to be controlling but on the other you don't like it when she craps all over your feelings. I don't think this is a question about love but a question of who matters most. All you can really do it try to work things out. What I did is I planned a very romantic/yet still kinda casual night for me and my gf to go out. I did my best to completely forget about the other guy and just have a good time with her. Then at the end of the night we talked. We talked about life, goal, us, basically about everything. We worked things out and she stayed with me because she knows no one will ever love her as much as I do. So just show your wife that no one will ever love her or value her as much as you do and ask her to choose. If she says she cant and continues to talk to the other guy chances are things are over and its time to try and separate. I know it will be hard. My gf and I have only been going out for 2.5 years but if I ever lost her I don't know what I would do.

If she went to meet with someone else then her feeling for you were all ready lost before she fell in "love" with him.  The fact that she let go of what you two had to find another relationship should be your answer.  She probably still loves you because she has spent so much time with you.  You can't just turn off your feelings over night.  I think you need to move on with your life and find someone who is dedicated to you and will not hurt you so much.  It might not be what you wanted to hear but from a girls perspective she is gone and you should move on.

We had problems like that and we worked it out. My Spouse is trying not to be so angry all the time and I quit talking to other men. I do not do it behind his back, because a deal is a deal.