I Have A Boyfriend And I Like Him. He Wants To Meet Me At Times. Should I Tell My Mum? I Think She Will Be Cross.

I think that if someone asks you out they should have the respect to meet your parents.

If your Mum is gonna be cross is it because she feels that you are too young to be going out with someone? Also, if you sneak around behind your Mum's back and you get caught then your Mum is not going to trust you and then things will get tough at home.

Usually, even though you don't think so - your parents have seen a lot more of life and know whether certain things are safe for you to do or not. I know some parents are very strict. But it is better to have a loving and strong relationship with your parents. Cos even if it works out with this boy or not you'll still have your Mum.

Don't lie or sneak around cos usually that is when things go wrong.

Tell your Mum or tell the boy NO!

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Best to tell your Mum because she might find out anyway and she would want to know why you didn't tell her in the first place.
She'll be a lot more cross if she finds out from someone else.
Is there a reason that your Mum would be cross if you had a boyfriend?
Perhaps she's worried that a boyfriend would get in the way of your studies or she thinks that you're too young.
If you can tell her that you have a friend who happens to be a boy she might understand. Most parents would prefer it if they knew about their children's friends and it is often a good thing to take friends home to meet your parents then they know who you are seeing.
Do you feel that you can ask your Mum to allow you to bring your friend home? You might find that she is glad that you told her and allows him to come home with you.
I think your mum would only be cross if she thought you had been untruthful with her.

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Yes, i think your mum should know. Why does he want to meet you "at times". Be careful, is he the same age as you?
Be honest with your mum she knows best believe me.

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But anyway you can tell your mom. She will not be cross with you. If she cross ask her whether she had a boyfriend at your age.

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If you like him,just meet him. Why should you tell this to your mother.

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You must have your own confidence, that the boy friend who loves you is loving you really or not . If you are confident you have to think about your future. And then you can inform your mom about your boy friend. If she is cross, you have to obey your mom.

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I think you should tell your mom about your boyfriend.

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