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So, I've asked what to do if your best friend asks you out, what to do if you still like one of your friends, and now I'm wondering... what to do if you (also) still like your friend's friend!! AHH You see, there are these two guys I've liked since the 8th grade. I went out with one of them; never really got to know the other. Now the one I went out with knows I still kind of like him, but I also still like his friend! He's extremely nice... Comments would be nice.

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    You're in a very doubtful situation. And you've to change your mindset in this case. Good focus can solve this problem. You must figure out who would be a better companion between these 2 guys. And then you should go for that one. It will not only solve your problem but it also has a practical approach to your problem.
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    Tausif 

    answered 3 years ago

      Oh dear...well you obviously cant have both and you need to think about how this will affect their relationship as friends. Boys usually are very tight when it comes to girls and they usually have this thing when they will never go with a friends girl. So it could get ugly and would it be worth it? If you still like the guy you are with maybe you need to make a choice and stop seeing the other one. It maybe hard but possibly the only way. Unless you really like this other friend more then you need to make a choice. But does he feel the same way about you?
      Or could you see yourself not being with either of them to save your friendship with both aswell as their friendship. It is a hard situation but you will simply need to make a choice that hopefully doesnt harm anyone in the process. Good luck!
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      Ocforlife 

      answered 3 years ago

      Thanks. (And thanks "Tausif") Yes, this will be interesting, esp. since we (me and Chris--his friend) have been invited to Brandon's house (the one I went out with). We'll hang out on Tuesday. I was talking a lot with Chris yesterday, for the first time we really had a great conversation! I know Chris is a really good guy, but I don't know how he feels about me. And I suppose I SHOULD consider not getting serious (or whatever) with either of them. Thanks again for the advice! I'll do my best!!!!
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      Awasnoved

      commented 3 years ago

        The ball is in your court and you have to make a choice and be truthful to them both or get out of their life and let them live or make a relationship for themselves with out you flip flopping......the best to you
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        Bgirl525 

        answered 6 days ago

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