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Who Should I Hang Out With? Any Suggestions?

I moved here last September and I made first new friend K and she's been really nice to me. As the time went by, I made lots of friends and now, populars want me to hang out with them. I like all of them if I hang out with populars, it's really fun to chat, if I hang out with my first friend, she knows lots of things but sometimes, I feel boring. My personality matches with the populars. But everytime I choose one side, I have to give up the other side. What should I do?

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    There is not a need to choose... You should be able to hang out with all of your friends without having to pick sides. If one group says you have to pick sides to be friends with them they are not your friends at all.
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    Gaseater78 

    answered 2 years ago

    100% agree. I have made lots of friends here, but on the flip side, if I want to make a comment and certain people dont like it, they turn. Just be who u our and you cant please everyone. :)
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    Walteria

    Walteria

    commented 2 years ago

      I think you might hurt your first friends feelings if you choose the populars to be with more than her. So why don't you divide your time with both or ask your first friend to be a part of your time with the populars.
      Why can't you just ALL be friends? If the populars do not accept your first friend, then they are not very nice people and you will probably get your feelings hurt by them in the future.
      You should choose your friends wisely. Who will be there to help you when things are not going so good for you? The populars, or your first friend?
      You must think on this then decide what to do.
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      Noki 

      answered 2 years ago

        You don't have to hang with anyone be yourself and be friends with who you feel you like better. You don't have to give up anyone they have to deal with you and understand that you like both groups of people not just one or the other. Tell them this and see how they react. Either they accept you and your friends or they don't. Do you really want to be friends with anyone that will not accept your friends?
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        Nomad1 

        answered 2 years ago

        Make your first frient understand your plight and you try understanding hers...There s always time in this world for everything!! Spare time with your populars as well as spare some time daily with your first friend.. Get double satisfaction for you and at the same time keep everyone around happy :)
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        John_caleb 

        answered 2 years ago

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