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What Do You Do When You Like Your Best Friend's Boyfriend?

Okay yeah.. I like my best friend's boyfriend... And I don't know what to do:((

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    Don't be around them when they are together,you know the old saying birds of a feather flock together,with that said doesn't he have a friend because his friend would be similar to him,hence that's the meaning of the saying,then think using best friend and liking and wanting something she has (Best Friend) I would think this situation over more....
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    Bgirl525 

    answered 1 year ago

    What if they are together all the time
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    commented 2 months ago

    Should you tell him that you like him
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    commented 2 months ago

      I suggest just staying friends for now.  If your friend and him break up and it is ok with her to go out with him, then I would worry about it then.  You cant control how you feel for others.  Just get to know each other and be friends.  No one knows what the future holds.  Take care and good luck.
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      Lisamarie1 

      answered 1 year ago

        Evaluate the reasons for which you like him. Make sure Reasons don't include Good looks, Handsome, Soft Voice and especially Too nice to be true attitude etc etc. Remember when Obsession comes in face of Love and Likeness, It is sending you the most lethal attack and you must avoid it by many ways!
        First of all find those habits in him that you like the least. You can talk to him, hand out with him when your friend is around or not but only to explore those bad habits that you find intolerable.
        And, If his behavior is like TOO GOOD TO BE TRUE, then remember that such men keep that attitude till they get what they want and will never compromise in your tough situation.
        ..
        There are many more beautiful and handsome men, look around, go out partying, Watch loads'n'lots of comedy shows like FRIENDS etc.
        Take a HUG from Life!

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        Life 

        answered 1 year ago

        This is a VERY difficult, place to be in. If you let either of them know it, you risk a lot. Boys come and go, but best friends are hard to find. People will say bad things about you, and you will get a reputation as someone that can not be trusted. I know that is not you. Keep some space from the couple if you can. It must be very difficult to hear your friend talk about him, when you care for him. I just think that you are very wise, and loyal, and would not really want to hurt, your best friend. I have been in the same situation. I only know that it will bring way more trouble than it is worth, to try and let Him know how you feel. You are way ahead of the pack. Lot's of girls would never give it a second thought. Respectfully Yours, penny/pencil
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        Pencil 

        answered 1 year ago

        Remember that your friend is your friend, and that if the shoe was on the other foot you would not want her to do the same thing to you.
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        Doubledip 

        answered 1 month ago

          I know what you mean because im in the same situation. I like to flirt with him when shes not around. You can also say something to him but you have to be careful of what you do. Good luck with everything and i hoped that i helped out.
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          Guest 

          answered 8 months ago

          I suggest that you try not to let it show i am in the same boat and i hate it because he is the best to her always waiting and helping her out but i would never risk losing her as a friend because she is the best ever and even though i really like him i find the saying boys come and go but friends stay forever to be true no mater how much you want the guy so yeah it's hard but most girls go through it at some point so it's normal and this is the time when you see how good of friends you are and how close you find out what pain and heart throb you are willing to go through for her you find out if you really are a true friend.
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          Guest 

          answered 8 months ago

          I was hoping to find out. I'm totally in love with my BEST friends bf
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          Guest 

          answered 6 months ago

          Im in the same boat i luv him so much but my best m8 is everything to me i think id rather have him n iv told him n he said ok and left it at tht now we talk alot more but i still dont know what to do ?!!! X
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          Guest 

          answered 4 months ago

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