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What Do I Do For The Best When It Comes To My Partners Double Life Father?

My partners father has hardly ever featured in her life. He has another family and wife. They don't know anything about my partner. For me this leaves a very bitter taste in my mouth, he will turn up once in a while unannounced and think nothing of it.

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    How does she feel about it,I'm you must discuss this among yourselves,I would think she should discuss it with him when he shows up sometimes,in your presence of course since neither of you know him very well you would just be the third party or the peace keeper if he seemed agitated regarding the situation,does it bother her at all,you two could invite him to a public place to have the discussion such as a diner,talk as you eat dinner or a desert. If he gets agitated or acts as if there is not a problem you know to leave him alone,but there has to be something why is he hanging around? Why doesn't she pay him a visit,that is not normal he can visit her home and she can't visit his home,your partner has to handle this,first,but you can't take the lead in this.Hope this can help in some small way.
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    Bgirl525 

    answered 1 year ago

    Thanks bgirl 525 neutral ground had never occurred to me.
    We don't know his address. He spends 6 weeks of the year in Spain and another 6 in Canada.
    My partner finds it hard to face the issue head on.
    Shes worried of the fallout from any confrontation.
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    Ironicblis

    Ironicblis

    commented 1 year ago

    She may have concerns regarding a fall out but it is not helping her own relationship with you if she is bothered and somehow this affects the relationship you two have,in time if something does not happen she won't have her relationship with you than what will she do?where is her mother?
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    Bgirl525

    Bgirl525

    commented 1 year ago

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