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I Wasnt Giving Him Much Attention In The Begining, Now His Doing The Same, Is He Paying Me Back?

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    He might be a bit annoyed with you and want to give you "a taste of your own medicine" - it's possible. There are other possibilities too, though. One of these is that he hopes to get your attention in this way -if so, he's succeeded. Or he may feel that if you aren't interested in him, it's better to leave you alone for the present. And, although it would be a pity, you also have to consider the possibility that he is really not so interested any more.

    If you are now quite friendly towards him -in a calm way: don't embarrass yourself ! - and he still likes you, he will let you know it before long. This is one time when it might be easier in a group situation - you can just chat to him in a friendly way until you see if he is also interested in talking to you.
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    Wordy 

    answered 3 years ago

      Yes, its a possibility. Maybe he wants you to feel the same way he felt. Doesn't feel too good, does it? You should never do anything to someone that you wouldn't want done back to you! Although 2 wrongs doesn't make a right. So maybe you both should sit down and talk about this whole attention thing. Its a 50 50 situation. When he starts giving you that attention back, then you should do the same or you might end up alone.
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      Smiley 

      answered 3 years ago

        It's called the see saw effect and if you get hung on it your in trouble.If you can, talk it out as soon as possible.
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        Crowdog 

        answered 3 years ago

           
           

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