Why When Black Men Get Successful They Go With White Women ?

Bollocks.. I am white and don't have a submissive bone in my body! Black, white, green, purple.. Makes no difference what colour my skin is. Why do people insist on putting us all in our little boxes? Does the world have OCD? I'm damn sure there are white, materlialistic, bossy white women out there, just as there will be submissive black women.

I'm dating a black man (for the first time) because I met a black man that I connected with, I'm not dating him because he's black! End of!

Saying that successful Black men equate success with being"white and right" is so typical of bitter Black women. I believe the reason so many Black men date and marry women of other ethnic groups has to do with the negative attitudes, materialistic obsession, and generally bad behavior of many Black women. Notice the focus here is on "successful Black men" which proves one of my points from the very start. If you have a nasty attitude, carry around emotional baggage from every relationship you've ever had or tried to have, have several children by the thugs you love so much, and cannot carry a positive conversation for two seconds how can you expect anybody--successful or not, Black or otherwise--to want to have anything to do with you.

Many Black women, therefore, seem to have the same double standard concerning interracial liaisons that many White men have, which is "We can do it, but you can't." I have noticed that Black women will sleep with and get into relationships with men of other ethnic groups and then complain about Black men having anything to do with a woman of another ethnicity. I have known, personally, Black women who were known for sleeping around with White guys who were the first ones to have something to say about Black men dating White women. So, I guess in their minds, it's better and more acceptable for them to have sex with men of other ethnicity's with no commitment than it is for a Black man to be in a committed relationship with a non-Black woman. That position is ludicrous and shows a very skewed and flawed system of reasoning.

I get so sick of this garbage. Maybe if Black women would choose to stop being so hooch, so materialistic, so confrontational, and so prone to being obsessed with assailing Black men we would have cause to feel better about interacting with them.

And as far as the comments about Black men not being responsible-- sleeping with thugs, drug dealers, known players, and other women's husbands makes Black women responsible!? I have found that many Black women will pass on a decent brother in favor of the very dregs I mentioned in the preceding sentence and will scream about us not honoring our responsibilities while they spread themselves around with the worst Black men they can find. When put to task about this fact, only a plethora of ignorant excuses are offered, which I will not dignify by repeating here.

One thing that many Black men I know who are dating or married to women of other ethnicity's say is this: "Before I got this (fill in the blank here--it could be anything from a good job to a nice car) sisters treated my like I wasn't s**t so why should I want them now that I've got it. If you want to be respected and loved, here's a simple formula--SHOW SOME, and don't let it be predicated upon what you believe a man has or doesn't have. Get real and be honest about who you are. Learn how to have a conversation that doesn't make a man run away covering his ears within two minutes. Stop hiding behind your props and realize that being loud mouthed, confrontational, disagreeable, and generally unpleasant is not being a "strong Black woman." True strength comes from character and moral fiber, not from how well you can argue, snap your fingers, and shake your head!