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Should I Fake My Orgasms?

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    No you shouldn't fake your orgasms that would be disrespectful and dishonest to your partner communication is the key don't forget that if your not feeling it  tell your partner what does and doesn't feel good and it would help you if you want to orgasm try masturbating on your own and when you feel a rush through your body its a real orgasm so once you know more less what pleases you tell your partner lead them through it
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    Piper2013 

    answered 5 months ago

      No, dont do that. If you cant get a Orgasm then talk with your friend or husband and tell him or go to the Dr.and ask him if he can give you something for that .
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      Wesley214 

      answered 5 months ago

        Well it all depends do you even be having orgasms why fake it does he not do something right? Thats the question i would ask myself
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        Stacy15 

        answered 5 months ago

        This is a very individual decision.  If you are on very good terms with whosoever you are having sex with and they can arouse you enough, you do not need to fake an orgasm, maybe you are not trying hard enough therefore not getting to that high and therefore you feel like faking an orgasm to please your partner.  You can do that once or twice when you are having a real good time to make him feel good.  But in the long run it is better to sit and explain to him that you do not get an orgasm, after which he would definitely try and arouse you in some manner.

        You could also visit a doctor and take his advise faking an orgasm sometimes to keep your partner in a exhilarating mood is fine but in the long run you have to talk it out.

        Everyone fakes orgasms at times!!!
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        Smitagadgi 

        answered 5 months ago

        I wouldn't. You'll be sending the wrong message. And then he can't keep trying to find a way to make you have one. Trust me, i've been there. But you will know when you have one. It can't be described but it's a like a feeling of ecstasy.
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        Tmbaker 

        answered 5 months ago

          I did for years with my ex husband and I thought it was my fault I couldn't do it, until I met my 2nd husband I never expected anything different BOY was I wrong. A  good lover will care about you enough to take their time and figure out what you like of course you have to be open with them too.You would be amazed if you and your man  just slowed down and figured your  body out when a man  shows interest in you and what pleases you your already half way to your orgasm.
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          Angeltoral 

          answered 5 months ago

          You would only be cheating yourself!
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          3942 

          answered 1 month ago

             
             

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