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My Boyfriend Swears And Calls Me Names And Insults Me. I Like Him And Vice Versa. I Don't Want To Break Up, But How Do I Get Him To Stop? (only 11 Years Old)
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At eleven years old you shouldn't be in a serious enough relationship where swearing and insults are part of your life.
You should be happy and enjoying yourself at your age and also concentrating on your school work.
You are far too young to be in this sort of relationship and it isn't helping you set the foundations for a loving, caring relationship when you're older.
You need to stop seeing this boy who is obviously immature and can't deal with a relationship which isn't surprising if he's eleven too.
He needs to grow up and learn how to treat girls with respect.
You need friends of both sexes and keep them just as friends for a good while yet and have a bit of fun.
answered 2 years ago
You really need to break up with him. Please don't start your dating life excepting verbal abuse! It will only get worse for you. You are very young and you really need to talk to your parents or an adult you trust (teacher,coach,aunt.) They will hopefully be able to help you learn the way boys should treat you. Please for your own good break up with the boy and find someone to talk to.Just know you should NEVER at any age be in a relationship with someone who does not respect you. Everyone deserves to be treated in a kind way by everyone!! Again please talk to an adult you can trust.
answered 2 years ago
The only thing that i didn't put in is that he's only joking when he does it. So i'm not feeling bad or anything i just want him to stop. The only person i ever talk to is my bestfriend. I talk about him with everybody but only the good things. Write back, and once again he is trying to be funny, and i dont mind it.( mabee its that hes my first boyfriend and that i just dont want to break up?)
Well,you are 11 and sometimes boys do say weird things at that age and think themselves being funny.Even though it's not. I'm glad to hear that he is trying to be funny not mean. The only thing that I can advice you is to ask him to please stop saying these things to you and tell him that you just don't think it's funny and if he doesn't stop you will break up with him. Just don't let anybody make jokes about you which you don't like. You said, he is your first boyfriend, there will be many more. You can ask me something else if you need. Good luck.
answered 2 years ago
Well i love your advise but i couldn't use it cause he just broke up with me yesturday, that's a whole different story now. He left me for another girl that doesn't even go to my school. When i had my first break-up i can't believe it but i got a sigh of relief. I was so happy to get him off my hands, we are still friends and i asume that he'll still do what he did but now i just don't care. Well i hope for you write me back!
I hope now that you are no longer dating him. You will just be a kid for a while hang out and be friends with lots of people and next time, you get in to a relationship, make sure it is with someone who treats you in a kind way. Just wait a while and don't let your friends talk to you that way which is not good for yourself.
answered 2 years ago
You are being very silly. Eleven years old is really not much more then a baby and I think you should be at least 18 before you even consider getting a boyfriend. You do not understand what you are doing, please just enjoy being eleven and don't ruin your life by falling in love.
answered 2 years ago
I know how it feels to be eleven! I am sure you like this guy a lot and you do not want things to mess up between the two of you. However, you do not like being insulted and sweared upon. Therefore, you must take a stand and tell him you do not like this attitude of his. Trust me, it is for the best of you. If you stand up to him, he will start to respect you.
answered 1 year ago
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That's a shame. Why don't you be different and not swear you'll eventually get the decent boys
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