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Who Says Their Vows First In A Wedding Ceremony? Groom Or Bride?

In the order of a traditional wedding does the groom or the bride say their vows first?

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    I believe I said  mine first, and I am a female, my sister just got married a couple days ago and she said hers first. So my answer is the bride
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    Bakedblog 

    answered 2 years ago

      I have seen it both ways, nowadays with more people writing vows and doing their own weddings, I don't think there is one right way.
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      Pencil 

      answered 2 years ago

        Hi larry,

        When we got married 25 years ago I, the bride, said my vows first.  We were married in a Catholic church, if that helps any.

        Maybe it has to do with the religion or the preference of the person officiating at the ceremony, I really don't know.  Good topic for research!

        Best of luck!!

        Jo
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        Jojoblu 

        answered 2 years ago

        When i got married 23 years ago the groom said his first.
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        Bible 

        answered 7 months ago

        I would say the groom....just so he can't say "Ditto" to whatever she says!!!  :)
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        Guest 

        answered 6 months ago

          The groom says it first.  I have done both Christian and non-Christian weddings and the opinion of the party, parents and pastors/officiant have all been the same.  Groom first.   And nice thumbs down to whoever did that to all the responses saying groom first to get them at the bottom of the list. Seriously?
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          Toddrik 

          answered 1 week ago

          For me its the groom...
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          Thomas0209 

          answered 2 years ago

          The groom says the vows first.
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          Stace12 

          answered 2 years ago

          As tradition goes the groom has the first say .
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          B4mental 

          answered 2 years ago

          The Groom says his vows before the Bride.
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          Samiamiam 

          answered 2 years ago

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