I'm 19 And Married I Want To Be Out, How To Do?

Wooow, i wonder what made you two believe you were ready in the first place... Anyway if you feel you have a good set of reasons for leaving the marriage (besides being too young) then talk to your husband and family. Then you guys will have to get a divorce if everyone agrees that is the correct decision.

Just tell them your not ready to be tied down to be married and that your sorry but it wouldn't be fair to him for you to be with him if you do not love him and do not wish to be married  so it makes it out as if your doing him a favor when really your getting what you want ! :)

I just wanna know why you'd want to quit? Something personal? Is he hurting you physically or what? How long did you guys are married? As the saying goes "marriage is not like eating something hot that when you feel you've get burn you'll reject the food inside your mouth... Here in the phils. It's not that easy to quit esp. When your married... Pls. Don't mind if i ask what's the reason...

Being only 19 and married is very difficult. But, you are an adult, and you made the decision to get married. It couldn't be more than a year or two, so what has changed in that amount of time? If it is just because you found someone else, that you think you like, then that is not a good enough reason to get divorced. If you just decided you are too young, that isn't a very good reason either. But, if he is hurting you, emotionally or physically, then you should get out. You do not have to stay in an abusive marriage. Was he cheating on you? If that is the case, try to get proof before doing anything. You need proof to get more out of the divorce decisions.

But, in any case, you need to get a lawyer first. Your lawyer can walk you through all the steps and will be able to give you suggestions on what to do.

I am very sorry to hear that you are unhappy with your marriage at such a young age. I hope you are able to either work things out, or get out without too much damage done. Good luck with everything.

Running away from bad decisions is not the only option you have. You could try counselling, or you could talk and work on what is influencing this decision. I agree 19 is young and restless. Love comes and goes in waves. It is the day to day living and problem solving, that makes or breaks a marriage.

The question that I have for you is do you love him?