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What Is The Best Way To Cheer Someone Up?

Well I have a buddy that just got dumped by his girlfriend [me] and I want to help him out, without him thinking I still have feelings for him.

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    It's hard to play both sides of the fence.  No matter how good of a friend you are, they will still feel a loss.   Just be honest with him, but in a gentle way.
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    Nic7320 

    answered 1 year ago

      Try to find some for him just like you.I don't know.......
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      Alyssa2021 

      answered 1 year ago

        I don't really think that he'll see it as cheering him up, Jojo22.  If you broke up with him, just seeing you will probably get his hopes up that you're maybe having second thoughts, and there would be a chance to get back together.  Usually it's just better to let the person work it out alone and try to get over the hurt and loss, and then get on with their lives.  Sometimes it's a good idea to "walk in their shoes" (like if it was you that was dumped (I hate that word, anyway) by someone you really liked) -- you can see that if they came to cheer you up, you would be hopeful that they were coming back to maybe start over?
        I wish your buddy to be able to get over this fast, and that you both get on with your lives and do OK.
        Moe
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        Moebkr 

        answered 1 year ago

        Well I will just try to give you my help.Hope that it will give you something.Firstly let him feel that you are always there to help him as a friend.You can use the words like "hi pal" "hi buddy" etc.You can also is the words like "I am always there to help you .its my duty being your best_friend" or "what are friends for.Have fun don't behave shyly.Act natural.Use the word friend or sister as many times as you can but don't let him feel it awkward and strange.When he ask you for help do help him.Act as if nothing has happened as I know it will be strange.Create a relationship like brothers and sisters.Its a beautiful relationship.I hope you'll understand! :)
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        Dragonfire 

        answered 1 year ago

        Slap him. It's fun! =P
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        Ttkm 

        answered 8 months ago

          What i would do  is tell him a funny joke or make him laugh.
          Don't make him feel like he is a stranger make him feel like he can be
          More than what he really is use fun words like pal,chap,buddy etc.
          Make him feel liked or loved don't push him out bring him in and make him feel
          confident.
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          Mazzia 

          answered 6 months ago

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