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My BF Wants To Kiss Me! What To Do?

I'm 13 (like, I JUST turned 13 BF and I (my first BF and I) were talking on the phone and kissing came up, and he sort of said he wants to kiss, but I've never kissed anyone before. He is shy and won't make the first move, and I have NO idea what I am doing. I really like him and I don't want to screw this up, and I need to know by tomorrow because he is coming over. I'm kind of VERY scared!!!

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    I would just try and calm down for starters and take some deep breathes. Oka now just Kiss him. Sure you guys are only 13 but I had my first kiss when I Was 13 and it was the perfect age... For me. Now since its your first kiss it shouldn't be a complete make out session. So maybe just a quick lip kiss would be good. :) try not to completely freak Okay? HAHA Good luck!
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    H8ted_by_8 

    answered 11 months ago

      If  you're not ready, tell him exactly that.  There's no reason to rush into it, and you will establish some boundaries.  There's lots of time to experience things in life and you should be in control if you want to be, or give up control when you want that too.


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      Nic7320 

      answered 11 months ago

        Well you gotta kiss him but only if you feel comfortable!
        Kissing is not something you can really learn i mean you can practice kissing your hand and a mirror to become more confident! But like its something u gotta do to learn! Make sure you brush your teeth and have a mint or gum or something before he comes over wear chapstick not lipgloss!
        And good luck!
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        Anavi 

        answered 11 months ago

        Oooooh man... Your first kiss... Its coming, you know it is. =)  well, its usually the guy who makes the move for a kiss. So be prepared. I know its a really awkward situation when the time comes.. I remember my first kiss........ Man... I was SO scared. But after that first kiss, you will have more confidence, and kissing him will be easier the more you do it. Just be careful. If he moves in for the kiss, and starts licking your face, don't go after him with mad tongue action XD.

        Just kidding.

        Just take it easy. Once you two do kiss fpor the first time, things might feel awkward for a bit because you wont know what to think or do. But thats okay, because thats natural. Just take it slowly, and when the time is right, then it will happen. =) good luck to you!
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        Mentzos 

        answered 11 months ago

        I am 13 and i just turned 13. And i got my first kiss not too long ago i know its pretty scary but when you get it over with you will get used to kissing a boy. I do it almost every day cuz he BEGS me. But don't rush your self if you don't want to then don't cuz at first i didn't want to but now i really don't care. You would want your first kiss to be special with a special person, not with someone that will kiss you then leave you as if they were taking advantage of you. Don't make the wrong mistake guys are STUPID. GOOD LUCK! -jessica
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        Jessica012 

        answered 11 months ago

          I was exactly like that when i had my first kiss. I was so nervous and well it turned out all right (besides the fact that my face was really red) anyways just the key is to RELAX if you don't relax then you will get all nervous and screw it up. Just really don't think about it and it will be fine
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          Spiderman 

          answered 11 months ago

          Hey :)

          Oh the first kiss. Such a great memory :)

          Don't be nervous. If your bf does not make the first move, ask him to close his eyes, hold his head and kiss him on the lips. He will love it :)

          As already said, I would just keep it a plain kiss on the lips LoL

          You will find that after the first kiss, all other kisses are more fun and less awkward :)

          Enjoy the moment :)

          Cheers

          Angel1403
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          Angel1403 

          answered 11 months ago

          At thirteen you don't need to kiss
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          Missnece 

          answered 11 months ago

          Tonge in, go wild.
          Sam
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          Guest 

          answered 10 months ago

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