How Do You Know If You're Bi?

If you find yourself attracted to someone of the same sex and also attracted to someone of the opposite sex, then you know. Most people think that there is something wrong with feeling this way, but if you do, don't worry. There are SO many people that feel the same way. Most guys actually LOVE it if a woman is bisexual.
I have a friend that is bisexual. She is attracted to guys that are really abusive and treat her badly, so she stopped seeing guys all together. She, of course is attracted to women that tend to be abusive too, so it's not really a good solution for her.
Don't beat yourself up about it and don't let anybody tell you that there is something wrong with it. You deserve to be happy and to live on god's earth the way god intended.

If you find yourself sexually attracted to people of either gender, you may be bisexual. Unfortunately, it may be difficult to find acceptance, even now. Within the gay and lesbian communities, there has been a pervasive idea that a person could not possible be attracted to both genders. "Pick a side" is something of a mantra.
Historically, individuals of higher intelligence or creativity have been more likely to swing both ways (at least from what we can discern from what has been written of them). I don't know whether that means it takes an expanded intelligence to accept that it is ok to fall in love with the soul of a person regardless of the gender they are.
Some uneducated folks might equate bisexuality with "looseness" or "being a slut." The reality is that a bi person will generally not behave any differently in their dating lives than a regular straight person would. They just don't limit their options for potential life partner to one particular gender or another.

Everybody is born bisexual to some degree including you!

The strength of your sexual desire for both sexes indicates the degree of bisexuality.

Everybody is, and should be treated as socially equal, whatever their gender or sexual orientation, only you can decide the strength of your feelings for any desire side.