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I Want Get Married But Not Through The Church What Can I Do?

My boyfriend and i want to get married but we can't afford a wedding through the church. We want to move in together both our families won't agree. We have been together for quite some time. He is 22 and i am 20. Hes family loves me and my family loves him. We just want to be together and just seeing each other has become more difficult with our work schedule and my family won't let me go out with him as much as before. Help

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    A lot of people just don't have weddings they just get married together or just have a small wedding somewhere cheap good luck -.-
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    Harryman2 

    answered 1 year ago

      If you are over the age of 18 you can move in with your boyfriend.  You are considered of legal age.  You dont have to have the same beliefs as your family and others.  Yes, they may be mad at you for a while but if they disown you that is just crazy.  I am sure they will get over it.  They just want you to be happy and have a wedding I think its there own dream.  It depends.  If you want to get married you can elope, go to the court house buy a marriage license and the justice of the peace can do it, they usually dont charge much if anything.  A mayer of your local city can do it, there are many people who can.  You can always save up and have a fancy wedding later if you want too.  It all depends.  There are cheap things you can do to have a nice wedding.  If your parents are pushing you to have a wedding why dont they chip in.  Parents do that in some instances.  Good luck.
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      Lisamarie1 

      answered 1 year ago

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