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What Can I Do About Death Threat Against My Daughter? She's 15 & He's The Same Age.

My daughter & the teenager goes to the same high school. He wrote what he would do to her &it was horrible!they said I could charge him but can't garanti anythings. He was suspended for 1 week. The judge is not around, so I can't do anything until 14 Nov.

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    You certainly can do something  about it you can take out a restraining order on him and he cant touch her. You can always call 911 too! Please get help!!!!!
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    Redsun 

    answered 1 year ago

    I, Thank you for your suggestion. I'm trying to get a restraining order, but the judge of piece(I don't know if that's what you call him)isn't around & he won't be until the 14th of Nov., & they said he's the only one who can do that.They gave me a number to reach him but said he was really busy. Im trying to reach since they told us about the thread & his not answering. I talked to the mother & she said she was sorry for what her son did, but the next day she went to work & left him alone. I went to get her after school & people outside the school saw him not far from the school, waiting. But they said there's nothing we can do about that. So my daughter can't even take a walk alone anymore, I gave her a cellulor phone & the card of an officer. He's been going for councelling & anger management for a long time, and he did that anyway. He didn't give any reason for doing that & they both said nothing happen. Anyway, thanks again.
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    Carole

    Carole

    commented 1 year ago

      Yes, get a restraining order. If he comes close, he can be put in jail. If he keeps sending more threats, than he can be punished further. Don't believe for a second that you can't do anything.
      If it were me, and my child were threatened, I would ask the teachers to mail me her schoolwork and keep her at home until the issue was resolved. If the other kid is serious, I wouldn't give him any chances at all.
      Remember, School's work for you. You pay taxes. So feel free to order them to send her work to you. I'm sure her friends would have no problem in visiting her at home if it meant that she was safe.
      Please, get help.

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      Shr3dd3r08 

      answered 1 year ago

      Thank you for your suggestions and yes , she'll stay home until I get the restraining order.
      Really appreciate
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      Carole

      Carole

      commented 1 year ago

        While perhaps you cannot talk to that judge, you can certainly contact the courts and have an emergency restraining order granted by another judge.  Also, contact the police personally and advise them of the situation and background.  But DO NOT rely on the police only to protect your daughter-- restraining orders work for law-abiding citizens, and too many people cannot be counted on to abide by the law if they are already so threatening, angry, or just plain hateful.

        Practical steps - ask police to help you by contacting parents of the kid to have a clear conversation about situation and repercussions.

        Drive your daughter or arrange for her transportation to and from school, and advise counselors and the principal of the situation.

        Enlist other parents' support in being present at social events at the school and keeping an eye out on things when you cannot be there.

        Ensure your daughter has a working cell phone on her at all times, has your number programmed in, and also knows how to use the 911 feature (which works even if the keypad or phone is locked).

        For the time, your daughter needs not to go places alone.  She also needs to avoid being anywhere near this guy as much as possible, avoiding the same hang outs and mutual friends/gatherings.

        Advise the DA of the threat immediately, personally or through an attorney.

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        Guest 

        answered 1 year ago

        Thank You Very Much for your answer, I've been doing everything you're suggesting but I didn't know I could contact the courts and have a restraning order from another judge. Thanks , you don't know how much I appreciate your suggestions,
        MANY, MANY THANKS TO YOU
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        Carole

        Carole

        commented 1 year ago

        You are most welcome-- what a horrible and frightening situation. I wish you and your daughter safety and peace.
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        Guest

        commented 1 year ago

        No, that is ridiculous. You have a threat to your teenage daughter in writing and they won't do anything about until the 14th??? Go right back to the police dept. And get a restraining order immediately. And yes.....charge him with everything and anything you possibly can. A court will not make you wait 3 weeks for a restraining order. Please treat this very seriously. I've seen on the news many times, that the nicest, quietest kids end up shooting up schools and such. Go get a retraining ored now and press charges for the threats. I will pray for your daughter and your family. Even though he got suspended, to many kids that means nothing. If you don't get the restraining order, he might continue to harass her at school or where ever he sees her, even if it's just for a second to call her a nasty name. Please go do it now. Protect your daughter.
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        Guest 

        answered 1 year ago

        Thank you, I really appreciate you take the time to give me suggestions,I'm doing everything I can, that's all I'm doing,
        Thanks again
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        Carole

        Carole

        commented 1 year ago

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