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Can You Love More Than One Person At Once?

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    Yes, I believe that you can have the feelings that we call love for more than one person at a time.  It is possible to love different parts of one person and to love the way that different people make you feel.  However, I do think that there are some issues you should address:

    What is wrong with one relationship that you require MORE of something than you are getting from that person.  Are you just greedy or is there something wrong with the relationship or more correctly perhaps, what's going on with you that you need fixing?

    Is perhaps the sex better with one and not with the other? Well that's not love, that's sexual satisfaction, which is like eating too much at dinner, it's just a temporary fix.  Perhaps you have residual feelings for someone that you confuse with love, perhaps you do really love two people, but I imagine that more than anything you need to take a good look at yourself and perhaps see that you are stuffing yourself with the wrong things, like someone who eats pizza just because they are hungry, rather than considering the range of food possibilities that might also be good for them!
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    Epictetus 

    answered 3 years ago

        To say that you love two people is unfair and wrong. It is a moral decision and an unfaithful one. You need to determine your true feelings and emotions before the two people you love get hurt in the process of your selfishness. It may be possible but it is not fair. You cannot play on people's emotion and toss a heart around like a penny because it feels good to you. You need to find your own underlined issues and deal with them before pursuing any relationship.
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      Mresellis 

      answered 6 months ago

           
           

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