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    Is It Possible, Or Common, For 15 Year Old Males To Sexually 'relieve' Each Other Without Affection, Or Attraction (or Kissing), Or Conversational Build Up Either Before Or After Simply For Gratification?

    My husband says this happened 30 years ago, and that its meaningless and that I can't fathom it because I'm a woman and am ruled by emotions. I also know him with certainty to be very attracted and sexually comfortable, maybe even more than average, with women (me).

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    I never heard of this. My question to your husband would be why would you need another male? Why couldn't the person relieve himself? Interesting.

    answered 6 months ago   

    HE SAID THEY HAD SLEEP OVERS SO THEY WERE SIMPLY ACCESSIBLE TO EACH OTHER, HE ALSO SAID ALCOHOL WAS INVOLVED AND IT WAS JUST 'EXPERIMENTAL WHATEVER'

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      I had a boyfriend a few years back that confessed this same type of thing to me. I found it to be really abnormal, but the more I think about it, maybe it isn't! He said that him and a couple of good friends used to hang out together and a few times they either relieved themselves or each other, all together. Right around the same age, 14 or 15. He said there was no attraction or feelings, it was simply an act done to accomplish the end result. I am curious about whether this happens a lot more than we think, but men are so ashamed of it that they will never tell a soul about it. I wouldn't be concerned about it though. This is 30 years later, he trusts you to understand, and you don't want to make him feel bad about it. Just pretend you never heard it, hopefully will not change your views on your husband.

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      That is in no way normal. Maybe if it was with some one of the opposite sex. But not another of the same sex.

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      HE SAYS HE GUESSES THIS MAKES HIM BISEXUAL, BUT THAT HE DOESN'T HAVE ANY FEELINGS FOR MEN AT ALL...HE DOESN'T SEEM ASHAMED. BY THE WAY, IT WASN'T ONLY HAND...IT WAS ALSO ORAL

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      Your husband is bi_sexual and you don't know he's done with that I'm sorry no guy I know could let another guy give him oral or a hand job that isn't normal most guys would be thrown in jail for another guy trying to touch himna sorry sweetie your husband goes both ways even if he ain't had no guy in awhile he ain't straight.

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      He shrugs it off...he said " i guess that makes me bi-sexual, but it's never happened since" he doesn't seem ashamed...by the way, it wasn't only manual...it was oral

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