My Husband Took A Picture Of My Tummy When I Was Sleeping And Showed It To His People At Work. I Weigh 130 Right Now. My Pants Don't Fit Me, They Are Too Small. He Is Trying To Make A Fool Of Me. He Thinks That I Am Cheating On Him, Which I Am Not. We Have Been Together For Over 26 Years. Should I Find Someone Else? He Won't Let Me Work Even. Is There A Job That I Can Do From Home To Make Money So That I Can Get Out Of Here?

WOW that is the most disrespectful thing I've ever heard.
Why does the job have to be from home?
Think about what you like to do, and figure out how to do that from home. for example: If you like children you can become a day-care, or perhaps tutor kids. If you like art, you could sell art work. Decorating cakes? catering food? practically anything can be done from your home.

By the way, 130lbs isn't considered fat. Shop for a different size to flatter your figure ;)

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Dear, try to find out a solution of your problem which will make you both happy, running from a relationship which you kept for 26 years is just not good. It is certainly immoral on his part to take your photo, and to show to others. May be he did this to you as he thought , you will feel much embarrassed after knowing it, and you will try to give time to your physical looks. Woman figure is important for each male member, and may be each time you appear in pants which do not fit you, he feels the same way more embarrassed as you now feel. In long relations we forget that how important we both are for each other, we start neglecting ourselves. The wise woman never do this, therefore try to join some exercises classes, and also buy yourself appropriate outfits.

Your second thought is that he thinks you cheat on him, in reality you feel it that he cheats you subconsciously, and therefore in conscious world you blame him for the same negative thoughts you yourself breed in your mind all the time, being feeling not attractive and beautiful. If he do not let you work outside, it means he is providing you with your needs himself , And you want the to do job only because you want to run away from him, and find some other guy. Now think if you do this, and the other guy has the same complains or more of them, as you are not young and fresh for him, what new route you will than try. To do work at your home is good idea, but to do it with this thought to collect some money and leave your home is not a womanly thought. When we make a home, it is our paradise, try to find good paying hobby, which you can do from your home, and get enough money to spend on your self and on your home, better forgive your partner what mistakes he had made in the past, try to give him more time, and ask him to help you in reshaping yourself.

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