I'm Cheating On My Boy Friend But He Doesn't Know It. Should I Tell Him? HELP!!!!!!

I`m sorry for this situation. Sure you should tell him ..that is wrong to stay with him and you with another guy....put your self in this situation (meaning your boyfriend cheating on you) how will you feel? it is easier now to tell him..maybe he is still falling in love with you and that's not fair to treat him like this.

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Yes you should tell him because the longer you are together the more attached he becomes, it is not fair to treat him like this and you already know that or you wouldn't be asking this question.
let him go and find someone that cares for him and you do the same.

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I hope you've definitely told him by now. The most frequently quoted (and broken) rule in relationships is to be honest with your partner. Because being honest means that you don't have to hide anything, and you won't speculate the same thing about the other person, and you know that you can talk openly about any issues. Many people think they can out-think or out-play the system, but I do not know of anyone who can make something like that work. As time goes by, you would think that things get forgotten, but then you will be surprised by how many things come back to haunt you even after you've completely forgotten about it. I hope you've made the right choice in this case, and if not, I urge you to think twice.

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If you really love or value your relationship, honesty is the best policy.

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I'm so sorry about this situation! It must be really stressing too! I think that you should tell him and be honest with him. Like if you were on a date with the other guy and he found out then he might not even be your friend because you lied to him about it,but if you tell him straight on with out him finding out himself, I THINK he might still want to be your friend. Hope it works out!!! ^-^

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I think if he really loves you and even you really love him then you should tell him and he will understand you if he really loves you

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I really think you should be honest and tell him. I'm sure it's going to hurt him if he loves you but he'll appreciate your honesty and maybe you can work it out and understand one and other.
I'm sure it won't be easy to tell him, but if you love him do it, it's better if he hear it from you than from somebody else.
We all make mistakes, but if you love each other, you'll both get over it with time.
Good Luck!

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If you love your boyfriend stop the other relationship. If you don't, end it. Either way he deserves to know the truth and he deserves a partner that is faithful. I wish you luck.

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DON'T TELL HIM!!!!!!!
It will ruin everything. if you like him and want to keep the relationship going then just don't let him find out!!

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Really I think that you should not tell him because he might hurt you first of all and then he might be like he never wants to see you again. But then you can tell him because they do the same thing they always cheat on us woman out there. So why not give them the same thing that they give us.. That would be okay... And I will have your back

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We all make mistakes, at times these mistakes can't be forgiven and at times they can be.
The best part is, when you know you have done something wrong, nothing is more good than be sorry and realize your mistake. Most of us don't feel guilty about what they do, and they go on pretending so nicely. They play with people's hearts and their feelings which is just not right.

Your good point is that you have realized your mistake, and you want to cover it up. The best way to do this is go to him and tell him the truth. You love him and that is why you're feeling guilty and if he loves you he will forgive you. It has been said that no matter how bad you have done, if only once you realize your mistake and apologize for it, then there is no better person than you. Go to him and talk to him about, ask him what was missing from the relation that you had to cheat on him. Everything has an answer so talk to him and tell him that you love him. And if he loves you the same way in return than he will for sure forgive you.

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If you value the relationship stop the man on the side and don't tell your bf it will hurt too much.
If you like the guy on the side tell him tell you bf.
If you want to stay with the bf all you have to do is stop meeting the other man.
And DON"T TELL ON YOUR SELF!
Live with the guilt and don't cheat again.
If you cheat again just end the relationship!

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