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What Does It Mean When Someone You Know Tells Your Friend That You Can't Help Each Other With Our Problems?

I have this guy friend that i like to help him out with his problems, and sometimes he helps me. He likes my sister and my sister likes him a little. My sister told him that i shouldn't be telling him what to do. He has tried to explain that we don't do that but she keeps complaining that it is. Everytime that i think about me and him as best friends i start to cry. I feel like my sister just took what she know was important to me and broke it into little pieces. I don't know anymore?

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Auntimaime

It sounds to me like your sister is having a case of sour grapes here. If you and this guy were friends first and remained close after they became interested in one another then she may just feel threatened by your friendship. You need to speak to her yourself. If the guy has spoken to her already, now you need to do it. Confront her, calmly and tell her what's what and what is NOT. If you have feelings of more than simple friendship for this young man then you need to confront him about that as well. You have to handle it from both ends, not sit in the middle and wonder why you're losing your friend AND your sister over something that could be discussed and worked thru.
Good Luck.
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AnonyMouse

ouch. it sounds like your sister may be a bit jealous. and it sounds like maybe you like this guy a little more than you think. First I think maybe you should talk to the guy and tell him how bad you feel about what is happening. tell him what you said here that not being able to talk to him that way feels like it breaks your heart. Tell him he is important to you. Lots of times we lose people because they dont know Just how much we do think of them.

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Rossi_bear

Tell your sister to mind he own business she has no right to tell you who you can and can't talk to!!And if you feel comfortable talking to your guy friend then don't let her put you in a position where you might loose your friend!!Let her know what she is doing is wrong!!And she should stay out of your business!!! Best wishes!!!!!!!!!

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pencil

It sounds to me like your sister wants to control both of you, according to her prejudices and beliefs. Your friendship goes back further than her relationship with him, and she may be jealous. I would have a talk with both of them and get this sorted out. It might be helpful if you put your feelings on paper so that you get the important points across, and there will be no more misunderstandings. Good Luck to you, and God bless you!

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